Trinity
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What would you do?

Do you think it would be easier to love someone and let them go, or to hate someone and leave them? Genuinely curious, don’t be scared to over explain :)

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Kathryn

Kathryn

2y

INFP

Aquarius

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Love them and let them go; I can deal with not getting my feelings returned and I can handle getting hurt but the people I love, I'd rather not see them hurt ever. I could easily let go of the person I love if it is going to be better for them or both of us.

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Margo

Margo

2y

ENFP

Aries

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Of cause the second one. If you hate the person, maybe you have the good reason to let it go, you may have No connection to that person and it would be the best. If you love someone, you may want to come back, if you hate, you have nothing to return.

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Tark

Tark

2y

INTJ

Aquarius

7
8

I don't have an answer for this. I feel like both are equally matched. None is easy. If hate then it's just because i don't want to have a bitter feeling after leaving them, if so i have to make sure they suffer A LOT. If it's love then it would be hard to let go if it's someone special. That's pretty self explanatory i think. Or maybe it would be easier to hate someone and leave them actually lol

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Dean

Dean

2y

ISFJ

Taurus

Love someone and let them go. This happened with me and my ex - the relationship had turned incredibly toxic over the last 2 years. I think that despite her discontent she had grown complacent. It hurts because there are still feelings there, but I need to think of my daughter's and my own mental well-being.

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Andy

Andy

2y

ENFJ

Gemini

6
5

Love will hurt you more.. hate will hurt them more so really depends on the situation for me tbh

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