What (do you do when)/ (would you do if) someone gets back to you, after they've ghosted you for months? P.S. Ghosters, better don't try to defend yourselves by letting others assume that most people don't know what ghosting really means, people who've actually been ghosted do understand and are very well aware of what it feels like, so your opinions are least needed, keep them to yourself..😌 (edited)

Give them a piece of your mind/ confront 🦈

Silent treatment/ ignore 🦒

Play along and eventually ghost them back/ avenge 🐺

None of the above/ others (comment down below)👇🏻

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Mike

7mo

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Cancer

So it's interesting because I've had this particular scenario happened to me before and I'm more that person where I will give you a chance to explain yourself as to why said individual did so, and sometimes there is a valid reason (i.e being hospitalized),while most of the time it's just generally unacceptable. And based on the response I will either allow that person some leniency and forgiveness or I'll just say later gator

Siddharth B

7mo

INFP

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I sadly get ghosted often and the few times the folks that have come back , I don't exert my energy confronting them and destroy my peace of mind in the process , that doesn't come naturally unless that person was really close to me , in that case I do that to some extent. Silent treatment? Naah I never can pull that off 😆. My curiosity doesn't let me do that . 🤭. Ghosting them back doesn't give me any pleasure too. I'd usually slide a few taunts , and see their reaction , I'm mostly vary of getting too comfortable with them again , I'd behave kinda cold and formal initially, and then gradually be start being normal . Idk what I'd do if they show keen interest and persistence to mend things for a long time? Would I try to give them a chance? Idk . But yeah I'm certainly not afraid of falling back again , maybe enough persistence and good intentions followed by actions would melt me. But surely not overrrr and overrr again, the chances would logarithmically decrease everytime 😆

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Nicole

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Love makes us do crazy things, that's why I stop believing in love😌 P's was so insecure in posting a picture without makeup or with a perfect lighting but I did it anyways 🫠