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This might be an odd question but would anyone be willing to tell me how to make my profile more interesting or appealing? I feel like I’m doing something wrong or maybe I’m just as interesting as drywall 😐

Kristen · Accepted Answer

Ohhhh I love these. Thanks @Seeta the Nosy Aunt🦝✨️

Actually, you've done well with pics and hashtags. Good variety. But your bio? I have zero idea of who you are - it could describe a million users here - almost including me. You've got to sell yourself. What sets you apart? Also, women like to be able to get an idea of how you express yourself, so don't use AI. 
Swiping stinks. Better to make friends here on the boards. Please pick the proper tags for posts, and do NOT post "I'm bored" because we will descend like locusts to tell you that that makes you boring and it's not our job to entertain you. 🤣
Finally, we actually don't like spicy pictures (you don't look the type but you never know) and also if you post bitter ex things we will block you because we don't like fixer-uppers. 
Did I miss anything? Hope that helps!

LC · Answer

For me personally any bio that has "open book, just ask" is an instant left for me. I see it to much, it's non-descriptive and people who have that, don't like sitting through questions anyway because of boredom. Other than that, I think you're profile looks great! You utilize the tags very well, I like your photos, you show yourself. No filtered selfies, shows what you're into very well!

Keep in mind even with a perfect profile, the app is heavily saturated with more males than females. So matching will always be hard. 
Maybe a female opinion is best, But you have a better profile than most I've seen here. Well done! 👍🏾

Craig · Answer

Yes. Don't say "just ask".  Tell them more about yourself, your life and what you're looking for. Without turning it into a novel.

Tilly - Short Hiatus/Slow to Respond · Answer

"Just ask" reads to me as "I can't be bothered to put in bare minimum effort for a bio but I expect you to want to put in a lot of time and effort to ask basic questions I could've pre-emptively answered". In other words, it's just telling people you're already demanding their time before they even know if they have anything in common.

Tags are decent, photos are varied. Just...actually write a bio. Keep it positive, eg: "I'm looking for a serious relationship" instead of "I'm not looking for casual dates or friends".  Stay focused on saying what you are looking for and offering instead of telling people what you don't like. Common mistake.

Mushi · Answer

Why do you feel that way?

Andrew · Answer

You can add more than just a sentence to the statements in between your images .. like you are super proud of your car, cool, is that it? .. I'm sure you have accomplished more in life than a vehicle you own .. give yourself some credit my guy 📝
Also you could even try adding a few images into one and upload that, just to give your profile extra pics of yourself .. maybe more of your hobbies or cosplays, some areas you've traveled etc .. 
Give yourself more to your profile .. 
Also ; any conversations you have and things get brought up frequently, or if you vibe with other things, you can always add more to your profile as you chat with others .. 
Also update it every 3-6 months or so, new information, updates on stuff you've done, things you hope to accomplish, goals etc .. 
Hope it helps 👋

Seeta the Nosy Aunt🦝✨️ · Answer

I'm bookmarking this to give my pov soon. In the meantime I shall summon my sis @Kristen 😆

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Since you did a great job with the pics and tags, why not show such creativity through bio description too?

Preston · Answer

Thank you to those who commented. You all seem to have made the same suggestion so I’ll work on editing my bio as soon as I have some more free time.

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Yes. Don't say "just ask". Tell them more about yourself, your life and what you're looking for. Without turning it into a novel.

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