Hello - I am trying to make friends. I joined this app to meet people online and stuff but I recently started to wonder how do you meet people in person? Like are bars a real thing? Do I just sit outside a Barns a Nobles with a sign saying "looking for friends?" Or is that to murdery? Basically I am looking for advice on where to go to find people who have time and are willing to talk. Thank you for your time and effort. Have a great day. (edited)

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