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Expectations are the bane of every relationship!

People are conditioned from very early on that every relationship is transactional. Everyone keeps an invisible score of good vs bad things and usually because of our psychology we tend to remember and focus on the bad. It’s a survival mechanism. It’s actually the expectations we place onto others... read more

Ok I just need to rant. Feel free to aita or whatever if you want, I don't really care tbh.

Divieing up the chores I asked my flatmate what chores she was most comfortable doing, and hated the least. We agreed that we'd clean our own bathrooms. Since we each have our own. (Though the showers broken in mine so I end up using her shower, but she regularly uses my bathroom as its the "guest... (edited) read more

Made me say 'Fizza' instead of 'Pizza'.

I love autoimmune disease.

Have you ever held someone like it was the last day on Earth?

There was a person that was in my life that would lie to me so often that I justified it to myself delusionally every day. I cooked gourmet food for her every single day because she was anorexic and all I could do was just cook tastier things than she could resist. I never pushed. I never forced.... read more

Expectations are the bane of relationships!

People are conditioned from very early on that every relationship is transactional. Everyone keeps an invisible score of good vs bad things and usually because of our psychology we tend to remember and focus on the bad. It’s a survival mechanism. It’s actually the expectations we place onto others... read more

It's okay to crash out. You deserve to crash out sometimes. Stop that peaceful and quiet healing journey. Be completely feral, and be a total menace to those who hurt you and cause you the pain. Do it for a plot

--- ps : I really mean it. I met a woman a the hospital and she told me to crash out. Her quiet healing journey caused her autoimmune. Stop being too kind to people who have hurt you.