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Posted Friday, July 28, 2023
1y
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Aries
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Having deep intellectual conversations that I'm interested in and the other person is interested in where we're bouncing ideas off of each other, researching the topic, and the conversation is just flowing with action defintely hits the spot. Seeing someone be excellent with skills towards their hobby makes me melt. Charisma, empathy, curiosity, honesty, and can vibe check makes me never want to leave their side. Knowing their experiences in life pulls me in close. Having projects to work on together that our skills compliment... I'll never forget. It's really draining to be a monogamous demisexual looking for the right fit when dating apps are geared more towards primary attraction. I'm exhausted with the same basic questions, knowing my profile wasn't read, and come to find out very quickly we won't click because of secondary qualities I see on a profile. I've only had one person sweep me completely off my feet with their witty humor, charisma, intellectual curiosity, maturity, empathy, confidence, and drive. I'm definitely okay with being single until someone and I cross paths and we both could take each other on an adventure. (edited)
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Rob
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I dunno, I like messaging initially as I find it less intimidating. It is true that it can be harder to read how the person you're talking to is feeling about your comments. Hopefully that right person will pop into your life sooner rather then later - only got so long on this floating rock after all. For now, enjoy the procrastinating 😉
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