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Universes
Posted Wednesday, March 6, 2024
10mo
INTJ
Virgo
Why people automatically judge us ?
Being non-monogamous why do people assume we are addicted by sex or desire etc. Someone just said to me they had to unfollow me because they don't want to give wrong impression as we are different. But this person was looking for just friendship and for me friendship and dating is different. Dating I am pretty much into non-monogamy and friendship means friendship to me. I think people who are unaware of non-monogamy should not judge us .period.
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Juliana
10mo
INFJ
Scorpio
The answer is simple, a monogamous man does not tolerate his girlfriend having a long history of previous relationships and also relates this to friendships with men.
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Robert
10mo
INTJ
Cancer
I understand it as longing for companionship, love, and community. It's difficult for me to fully grasp having a monogamous preference, but I can see the appeal in it. I can see why the norm might frown at the idea. Personally, I'm just too jealous to share a special love with someone other than who I love.
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