So I understand if talking doesn't go far but I'm not getting matches. I feel like I look decent, I'm stable, and emotionally present...so I'm missing what I'm missing. Please lay it on me.

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Leo

I wouldn't mention alone time as the first thing stated on your profile. Maybe save that for discussion down the line. Most women on here are lonely too... remember that!

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ISTJ

Sagittarius

When I clicked onto your profile I would’ve swiped left until I started to scroll more! You have a beautiful smile and I think that should be the first picture, it makes you seem more friendly and easily approachable ❤️

6mo

INTP

Aries

On most of your pictures you look like a lost puppy. That might be cute to some people, but it isn't sexy or desirable for a partner. Find some normal pictures, or abnormal, it doesn't really matter, just don't look like a fluffy toy. Even if you like it that way. Especially if you like it that way. Ditch the mad genius thing and everything related to it (and that's a lot of text there). That's off-putting if you say it. If somebody else says it then it's intriguing. And no, don't write that people say you're a genius, even if they do. Don't say that you're emotionally available. You're an INTJ, so by definition you're not in touch with your emotions. That doesn't mean that you don't have them or that there's something wrong with you. But don't write too much about emotional availability because you're probably not going to get it right. INTJ is usually quite willing and capable of working on himself, which is a rare quality. Write something about that. Not too long. :-) Good luck.

6mo

INFP

Sagittarius

I feel like you need to have the personal stuff about you first. Having what you want from a relationship in your bio is great, but when it's the first thing people read about you it can feel too business-y I guess. Try starting your bio in a more light hearted way. If someone can make me laugh in their bio, I am significantly more likely to connect with them.

6mo

ISFJ

Taurus

I wouldn't say anythings wrong. You're a good looking dude. Maybe replace some of the selfies with you doing things outside. Picture with friends helps to see that you indeed have them. Show WHO you are in your pictures.

6mo

ENTP

Gemini

Haven't read anything but immediately, get some pics that aren't just selfies. Be doing something.

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INTJ

Libra

Here's some tough love. Get a haircut! I would instantly swipe left on someone with hair like yours. It does nothing for you. Yes, obviously not everyone will agree. But to me, your hair says that you lack confidence. And it just looks.. enough said!

6mo

INTP

Cancer

Looks fine to me! They’re missing out. It’s on them

6mo

ESFJ

Gemini

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ENFP

Capricorn

I haven’t been getting matches either so take my advice with a grain of salt. Remove the OCD section and instead mention how you can and like to take care of others. You can discuss about your OCD after the first date. Secondly the divorce tag. Nothing wrong with being in a relationship but if your divorced that leads to some series of questions that may give people red flags. These questions are but not limited to, are you seeing your ex-wife, are they still alive, what happened during the relationship, am I the rebound, am I being used by this guy to get back at his ex-wife, what if the guy did something to his now ex-wife. You can keep the divorce tag since I do think it’s beneficial to not have people be blindsided but I do recommend to put in your profile what happened. You don’t need to put too much details but knowing that your not a abusive partner will go a long way. Thirdly, and this is base on my personal bias preference so you can skip it but with love language please provide more details of what you mean with phyiscal touch. When a person puts on their profile that they like physical touch it makes me question by whom and in what way. Nothing wrong if you mentioned something like you like your hair being played with or like giving or receiving massages but to me I have a ick factor of if I don’t know you why would I touch you. Otherwise the other thing you can do is reorganize your photos. I personally like the one with the scarf more since it shows ambient environment that relaxing and your figure is amazing. Don’t be afraid to take more full body picks instead of just your head.

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I wouldn't mention alone time as the first thing stated on your profile. Maybe save that for discussion down the line. Most women on here are lonely too... remember that!

When I clicked onto your profile I would’ve swiped left until I started to scroll more! You have a beautiful smile and I think that should be the first picture, it makes you seem more friendly and easily approachable ❤️

I wouldn't say anythings wrong. You're a good looking dude. Maybe replace some of the selfies with you doing things outside. Picture with friends helps to see that you indeed have them. Show WHO you are in your pictures.

Haven't read anything but immediately, get some pics that aren't just selfies. Be doing something.

Here's some tough love. Get a haircut! I would instantly swipe left on someone with hair like yours. It does nothing for you. Yes, obviously not everyone will agree. But to me, your hair says that you lack confidence. And it just looks.. enough said!

Looks fine to me! They’re missing out. It’s on them

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