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Posted Friday, September 13, 2024
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Why Loyalty in People Fades With Time? (A Psychological Truth)
Everyone talks about loyalty, but 99.9% people never understand its existence as psychological, but treat it as behavioral. Loyalty is not a permanent state. It’s a dynamic relationship between expectations, emotional fulfillment, needs, and external influences. Disloyalty arises when these factors shift or when they’re no longer in harmony with a person’s internal world. At its core, people turn disloyal because they are driven by psychological needs, emotional connections, and the constant pursuit of growth, novelty, and fulfillment. - People are driven by changing needs and desires. When a relationship, job, or product no longer fulfills these, disloyalty becomes more likely. - Comparison with others can trigger dissatisfaction. If someone sees better alternatives, they may feel discontent and look elsewhere. - Cognitive dissonance occurs when there's a gap between expectations and reality. People may become disloyal to reduce this internal conflict. - Trust and emotional bonds are fragile. Betrayal or neglect can push someone to disengage emotionally and seek new connections. - Autonomy and identity are critical. When someone feels restricted or that their identity is no longer aligned with a relationship or brand, they may turn disloyal. - The human brain craves novelty. Boredom and routine can drive people to seek new experiences, leading to disloyalty. - Social and cultural influences also play a role. Peer pressure, societal norms, or changing values can encourage disloyal behavior. - Emotional overload and stress can cloud judgment, causing impulsive actions and pushing people toward disloyalty. Loyalty is fluid, not fixed. It's shaped by constantly shifting needs, emotional fulfillment, and external influences. Life never talks for permanence, because nothing is. Life lives within moments. Choices are binary, either we accept and feel fulfilled, or stay in a delusional mindset that life is certain. #loyalty #dating #relationdipadvice #practical #practicaleffects #cognitivebehavioral #cognitievefuncties #cognitiveneuroscience #cognitivepsychology #dating
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