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Posted Sunday, September 8, 2024
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Double standards? Whats appropriate?
I feel that if a man wore skin tight leggings out in public, that would not be appropriate... People would stare at him, and he would be considered a pervert... However on the flip side, a female can wear skin tight leggings, its not inappropriate... Also when people stare at her, she is not considered the pervert, it is instead the people staring that are perverts? I feel that far too often the women that complain about perverts and unwanted sexual attention, are the same women who dress incredibly sexual... Is it at any time possible to take accountability for your own choices and actions? If you are recieving unwanted attention; think about why that is, and what YOU can do differently about it, instead of deflecting blame and responsibilities on others. We are all free; you cant ask to have all of your own freedoms if it means restricting others freedoms... If you want the freedom to dress however you want, then go for it, but others have the freedom to comment on you... Your freedoms do not override there freedoms. If you want less sexual comments, then dress less sexually...
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This is a good reminder for all of us as women.. I happen to dislike wearing short or revealing clothes, but there are still some men who comment on me.. They say that I have good fashion sense and that a woman like me must often change partners.. In reality, I have never been close to or dated anyone.. At that time, I was still 17 years old, i wanted to be angry with those men, but I realized that they did not know who I was and had demeaned themselves as kings.. So, I believe it all depends on each individual's character and personality.. People will easily form their first impressions of us.. Even if we take care in how we dress, act, and speak politely, and behave well, if our conversation partner has a different frequency, it won’t align with ours.. Essentially, everyone has their own perspective, and bullying, insults, mockery, etc., will always exist bcs they are not part of culture but a form of thinking that person has.. So not everyone is entirely good or bad.. By the way, thank u for reminding us with your beautiful words.. 😇🙏🏻
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