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Posted Wednesday, May 22, 2024
4mo
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Narcissism
I've been seeing a lot of posts on here about narcissism lately. I've been around narcissists my whole life, and they used to really confuse the hell out of me, but then I understood that I'm just dealing with children. When you want a child to behave, you don't get emotional, you set firm boundaries, and talk about the consequences of violating those boundaries - "It is not okay to throw things; if you continue throwing things, we will leave." (something like that) The most important thing is remaining indifferent in your attitude towards narcissists, they are trying to get emotional reactions from you - if you can be firm in your boundaries, but remain indifferent in your emotional reactions, you will turn the tables, and drive them crazy instead. I'm not saying your goal should be to drive someone else crazy; but you should set boundaries, and if people don't respect them, then you should reiterate them in a way that they understand. Once I stopped trying to use logic with narcissists, and instead started using boundaries and a calm tone of voice, they started getting mad at me and leaving me alone....they don't know how to deal with this, try it out.
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