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Posted Sunday, August 4, 2024
1mo
ENTP
Aquarius
Sadly, quantity turns into quality, more people you know, more probably you will find friends or loved one
That’s so difficult for me to talk to several people, for example in dating app like this one I don’t have the matches function turned on, and speak to about 4 people and not even on daily basis or like something serious, I understand that I need a quantity, but it feels so uncomfortable, like I just don’t care I don’t wanna bunch of matches, salty compliments, For me one person would be just enough, because I don’t have interest in people in general, and that’s the problem because you can’t trust that one person, because this person you considered friend can just vanish one day and you don’t have anybody anymore 🤷🏻♀️ People with huge social circles are always be the winners in dating or friendship groups, just because their quantity turned into quality. I don’t wanna turn on matches, I don’t wanna unknown people sending me messages, or I don’t wanna go to dates with random people, I don’t wanna meet random people, but how to make it differently? There is no miracle, you will not just as you fantasies about escaping bunch of messages, it’s impossible just to find right one without talking to bunch of people, that’s a delusion. Or you socialise or you are staying with no friends, even if it feels boring and not pleasant you must talk to people and risking your mental health facing i d i o t s 🥴
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Oleg/אולג
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Carl
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Can't find new known people if we don't accept unknown people, it's a catch 22
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Risto
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Gemini
I dunno, I never had friends, (maybe as a kid) but that's alright. Never had a relationship with another person without it being co-dependant toxicity
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mirco
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INTJ
Pisces
Hi, very complex indeed, it depends on what you're looking for: history, or various friendships, or sincere. I would make a selection based on the people I think are right to consider or not, it's not advice but what I would do concerns me. Then you see, I tend to try to avoid giving advice or anything else, maybe it's wrong, I don't like influencing others, everyone makes their own choices, hi marie 😃😃😃
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Marciel
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ENFP
Aquarius
I understand your point, Marie. The constant reintroducing yourself to new people after the solidifying of friendship with someone who has just disappeared can be bothersome. I think of times in deserts of social connections, the memorable moments and experiences of those we connected deeply is the oasis in those times.
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