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Tanner

20d

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I wasn't really sure where ask this question but considering it has to do with behavioral situations I figured I'd ask. In every relationship I've been in, I've struggled direly to be kind and caring and even at times spending upwards of 140 bucks weekly on my partner. I'm almost never rude (only on very rare bad days or if I get cursed at because they're mad about work which happened in my most recent relationship.. also by rude I mean less talkative) but after 2 years something always happens. They always fall for someone else. With my first girlfriend she fell for someone else and the most recent she got into a relationship too early (after 2.5 years of dating). Am I doing something wrong? Is there something women don't like about a guy who is constantly nice and trying to make them happy? Is it the soul fact that I can't drive at 20 because of trauma? I just don't get it. I feel inadequate and I just need some type of answer

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Santino
Santino

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Every man and woman should determine their relationship on their home life as a child if it was a dysfunctional family in your parents were dysfunctional your new relationships will be the same as it is the norm when you find someone that doesn't fit your narrative it feels uncomfortable and you will leave it also could be self-sabotaged because the people you are finding remind you of you so you self-sabotage instead of them letting him hurt you maybe being worried about paying for things or the time says that you don't have enough money but if a woman is asking for a certain lifestyle and you can't pay for it that is time for you to leave a good woman will not ask you to take her out for an 80 dollar state put it that way

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Victor
Victor

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My friend: get rid of the traumas and focus that niceness on building up yourself. Nothing else matters because you can only attract that which is on your own frequency. A real man is nice yet dangerous. Embrace your true you.

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