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Posted Tuesday, January 30, 2024
7mo
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Capricorn
Am I the only person who thinks so?
When someone tells me : I can change for you. I will stop doing things that you dislike. Like for example smoking. I think why he wanna do that? Isn't it better to find someone who matches you instead of changing yourself? Is he really honest or he just says these things now and will do whatever he wants later? So why men say these things? Am I pessimistic? Or it's a red flag fr?
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Mishka
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Or.. He might see that smoking for example, is an obviously bad habit that he wants to quit but never had the right motivation and you are his motivation. I don't really think it's likely but it can't be dismissed. Inspiration comes in many forms
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Love is about compromise. Discussions and argues can and will happen. Trying to do something that brings unity or makes the relationship easier is normal. It is part of connecting.
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Michael
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Possibly a lack of self-respect. Perhaps heโd rather try to be someone else than be alone. No one should change who they are for anyone but themselves. Alternatively, he might just be telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Either because heโs knowingly lying, or because heโs a pathological liar who believes his own lies. Any way you slice it, itโs not a good sign. (edited)
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