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Jean
11mo
INFJ
Gemini
It's not idiocy - it's mostly saving our energies and also respecting the person we decided to talk to (even if he/she do ended up to be talking to multiple people at once - at least we know we've been loyal to our ways of communication and what we feel is right). Then after a few days/weeks/months and it's not going anywhere, you'll be free to let go and say goodbye amicably, knowing that you did your best to connect with that person but it's not just meant to be.
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Karyn
11mo
INFJ
Taurus
I'm with you β ... when I'm interested in someone (seems to happen once every 3-4 months), I give them my focus. I can't fathom an amazing relationship growing from scattered energy/half-assed effort. But most of the time, the person on the other end is on a less-focused wavelength and it ends up hurting.
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Amritesh
11mo
INTP
Libra
Feeling relieved to know that there are other people like this too π We're in this together lol In all seriousness, Imo we have to invest some time in the other person just to know them well and then take a call accordingly. The main point here is to not get badly hurt if things don't work out eventually. One shouldn't get too attached to the person before things get serious.
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Manish
11mo
ENTP
Pisces
Really π
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Nick
11mo
ESFP
Libra
Hello
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Saffa Β©
10mo
INFJ
Aries
I get loyal during the bloody procrastination stage... ππ€¦π»ββοΈ
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