Why do I get ignored?

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Abena Buena Voz

10h

ISTJ

Cancer

4

5

Decluttering My Mind (edited)

1/6

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6d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

Funny how they always say that they wanted to have a girlfriend, someone to talk to, someone to have conversations with... yet the moment they finally got match with a woman here, they talked inappropriately,asked us inappropriate things, or wanted inappropriate stuff.

--- Please go work on yourself, some of you really need it. It's exhausting, even for anyone who's not looking for anything.

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5d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

I don't know how to respond to a person's comment on my post if they do it privately (through DM) because that means : I NEED TO accept your request first so I can reply to it when I'm not even sure whether you wanted to be friends with me/you just wanted to share your thoughts on that post~

--- That's why usually I only read that, and let your request hanging. Sorry not sorry 😅😅

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8d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

I finally reached the point where I still believe in healthy marriage & a happily ever after—ending, but I no longer dreaming about it.

Marriage isn't for everyone. And maybe, I'm that "everyone". So married, unmarried, I'm still me, a girl who'll treat people with kindness and always try to be their sunshine and rainbows ☀️☀️🌈🌈 Plus, people told me that the whole process of divorce is exhausting and expensive ~

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Neil

12mo

INFJ

Aries

1

2

look what they took from us

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8d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

POV: you NO LONGER believe that love and loyalty still exist because, even 🦋THIS!🦋 gorgeous woman still get cheated on by her fiance?

--- I think I am good with getting old, spending time with my cat only.

1/7

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𝔇𝔦𝔞𝔫𝔞

12d

INTJ

Virgo

8

7

Somehow I can’t even stand those pleasers. Usually their real intentions are hidden and kindness / supportiveness is so fake.

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Jen

12mo

ISFJ

Libra

1

9

What we are

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3d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

🗣️:If God wills, He will reunite two lost souls again — at the right time Me, thinking about God makes me reunite with people from my past:

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Abena Buena Voz

12mo

ISTJ

Cancer

4

5

Silence İs A Source Of Great Strength That We Can Hear The Whispers Of Our Soul. (edited)

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3d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

People on break-up day mostly : "In the right time, let's meet once again with the best version of us" Me : You had me & the best version of me. And yes, you wasted it. So no there's no "the right time" for you. Not to mention the "meeting you" once again, bc I'm not planning to

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Anne

24d

INFJ

Leo

I'm tired of this life.

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Mbaly

13d

INFP

Virgo

What's the first thing you notice when someone approaches you?

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5d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

🗣️ : The most dangerous anger comes from someone with a good heart. — If their heart is good, they won't bother to throw dangerous anger, they'll simply leave with no words spoken for your own good, and for their own sanity, bc they know you don't deserve them and their emotions.

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Natasha

23d

INFJ

Gemini

9

1

Yep

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25d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

Love is, when you find out, heard, or witnessed someone from your past achieved all the dreams that they used to tell you all the time, with someone new; and you don't feel anything but happiness, and pride over their achievements. No jealousy, no regrets. Just a lil' whispering: "They made it!"

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23d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

My dream last month was to be an independent woman. My dream last week has changed,I want to be a wife, of a rich wealthy man, it doesn't matter if he's old. My dream now is I just want to be a giant octopus, who can slap up to 8 people at once.

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2d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

Me looking at my cat's old photos, knowing that she'll be my biggest heartbreak one day...

At the same time she's busy doing zoomies, run happily hunting for cockroaches & doesn't care about my feelings...

1/2

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⋆⁺₊⋆ Tae ⋆⁺₊⋆

10d

INFP

Sagittarius

2

1

Right?

We go to school for years, but no one teaches us how to be at peace with ourselves

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Santia

5d

ENTP

Capricorn

4

5

Connection

How many people have made real connections on this app? Love, romance, friendship???

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10d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

🗣️ : "Souls don't meet by accident" NO. It was truly an accident. And I was the only one who got hurt.

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Jimi Z

5d

ENFJ

Sagittarius

4

5

Me; anytime, anywhere (edited)

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3d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

Sometimes when I looked at some people's profile, I gasped and said: "the God must be in His best mood when He created this person".

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Mbaly

20d

INFP

Virgo

Tell me about a good day you will never forget.

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24d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

Life isn't a hundred-meter race against your friends, relatives, or everyone you see on the internet Life is a lifelong marathon against yourself.

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12d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

It's okay 👍👍

1/2

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laila♡

25d

INFP

Gemini

6

7

Random thoughts

Rhetorical question..Are compliments for the one receiving the compliment or the one giving it? Seems like some people love to receive them, just as much as others detest them. I've seen some people say that they can't believe their compliment was not accepted or well received. So it made me... read more

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25d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

Feeling blessed and grateful for having a loving family :

I'm not an extremely introverted person but I tend to avoid family events most of the time, I don't have any specific reasons why I avoid family events other than I am almost 98% a homebody. But I feel like I made a very right decision yesterday, I agreed to visit my aunt who was sick and had just... read more

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Abena Buena Voz

25d

ISTJ

Cancer

4

5

Secret For A Long And Happy Life: Love Without Measure 💖💖💖

#dating

Kenya

3mo

INFP

Scorpio

6

7

For the love of god...

Can someone please help me understand the point of liking someone only to not say anything or respond?!? #boo #single #showerthoughts

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Robert

29d

INTP

Virgo

6

7

What goes up must come down. Except cost of living. Please obey gravity.

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9d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

☹️☹️☹️

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Robert

12d

INTP

Virgo

6

7

I just thought of a new nickname for the andrew tate banbase. "Tater tots"

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12d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

🗣️ : "Never let anyone ever get comfortable disrespecting you"

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22d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

I once asked my ex to take me to a Ice Hockey game date and he said "sure sweetheart if that's what you want", and I asked him if it's pricey to book a seat behind the glass?? He said that we can afford that, so no need to be worried about it. Apparently, we broke up before we make it happen—

My best friend : "I'll take you there". — take me where?? My best friend : "Ice hockey game!! Seats behind the protection glass.I remember you told me you want it. I'll get the tickets". — I don't want it anymore. My best friend : "I didn't ask. We'll go and watch it anyway". Now you know, why... read more

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12d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

I love three-members friendship. I love going anywhere with 2 ppl, so I can get the backseat, and go mute myself.

I like to listen to them talking like it’s a podcast. A podcast from my favorite podcasters 🌸🌸🌸 (edited)

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25d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

It takes a strong person to say that they're sorry, and an even stronger person to forgive. When you forgive, you heal. When you let go, you grow.

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Keith

12d

ISTP

Capricorn

2

3

Relationship success, Realistic expectations

I heard something recently that made sense, Relationships succeed when there's 100% effort put in between 2 people, 50/50 each but it only works when each person tries to put in 60. Interesting theory as anyone who's been in a relationship knows that there are peaks and troughs when it comes to... read more

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Arlind

11d

ENTP

Sagittarius

Future is the same too.

It remains unknown.

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9d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

I'm so grateful for the people who never sugarcoating things ; never hides their 'aggressive', and mean attitude from the First 10-lines of our conversation. They technically saved me bcs we didn't have to waste each other's time.

——— That mean attitude needs to be healed first before they go outside to socialize with people. Just calm down.

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M̷A̷R̷I̷A̷ A̷N̷G̷E̷ 🖤

29d

INFP

2

1

Yes. 🙌💖