Responses Community

#bored

Matt

14h

INFJ

Scorpio

2

3

Who wants to chat?

I've been here for a few days now and no matches or responses to messages so I'll try my hand here...would anyone like to chat? I'm dying of boredom.

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2

#relationshipadvice

Sam

15d

ENTP

Virgo

What do you wish the opposite gender knew?

What do you wish that the opposite gender knew? To me this is a very interesting question as there can be vast differences in the way we all function and think so will be interesting to see in what ways and what opinions other people have about this subject Feel free to post your responses... (edited) read more

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28

#dating

Anna

11d

INFP

Gemini

2

1

❓ Question to guys

EDIT: Thank you all for sharing your responses and perspective 😊 When you DM some girl on the dating app, IF SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU for any reason, would you prefer for her to just ignore your message or would you want to just hear that she's not interested. If you'd prefer a message back... (edited) read more

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33

#introvert

Shay

6d

INFP

Leo

To everyone that I have or will become friends with

I do apologise for my responses time and my conversation skills . I try my best to respond but I'm not the best when it comes to the question "tell me more about yourself and what hobbies do you have?" . It makes me feel very overwhelmed at times and I truly am sorry that I come off as a dry person... read more

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7

#friends

Saru

8d

ENFP

Virgo

Pretty Privilege

Honestly, man, I’ve always wondered why guys treat pretty girls like royalty but act cold or distant around girls who aren’t conventionally attractive. And the thing is, I’m not just pointing fingers this happens to us too. I’m short and not exactly what you’d call a handsome dude, and whenever I... read more

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9

#books

Fouad

6d

INTP

Aquarius

LOOKING FOR INTERESTING BOOKS

Hello, I've recently developed a love for reading and I've been reading quite a lot lately and I would like to get some recommendations of new books to read as well as people interested in having discussions about specific books, looking for your responses.

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7

#psychology

𝗔𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿

22d

INTJ

5

6

"People who don’t value you shouldn’t have space in your emotions."

Have you ever found yourself always being the one to reach out first, only to get shorter and shorter responses or sometimes no response at all? And every time you try to initiate a conversation, they remain silent or reply in a way that shows no interest or care? So here’s the question: Why do... (edited) read more

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2

#poem

💖Sarita💖

20d

ESFJ

Libra

6

7

Just Another day on the Internet 🤭😁

You dont know me You only know the words I write in biased short form Sometimes long I am online We exchange the occasional story We express our fears We share our dreams We voice our frustrations We judge one another We pass by profile after profile after profile (🙄) There's something about... (edited) read more

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3

#écriture

Hope

25d

ENFJ

Gemini

The brokenness of the soul

And in the end, we find ourselves silent.. not because we were defeated, but because talking became useless.. At some point, we realized that some battles only require us to ignore them, and that some people do not even deserve a response... We look at them silently, while they think they have won... read more

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1

#selfimprovement

Nova

18d

INTP

Taurus

9

1

Alchemists know

That suffering is often part of the process; grieving is part of inheriting new strengths, connections that end are often protection, and doors that close are usually redirection! I welcome these hard times lately with open arms, as today my understanding is that they're meant to reveal things in... (edited) read more

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4

#writing

Sonny

8d

INTJ

Cancer

9

1

Many adults have not evolved beyond their childhood emotional understanding.

You pay bills. You drive a car. You make big decisions. But when anger flares, you slam doors. When sadness hits, you go silent. When fear creeps in, you hide behind excuses. As children, we learn about emotions in simple terms. Happy. Sad. Angry. Afraid. We react. We cry, laugh, or shout. But... read more

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1

#cooking

Mike

28d

INFP

Virgo

Recipie recommendation request

So since people all across the world are on here what are some of your favorite home recipes? I am certain that many of us would greatly appriciate it here in the community. For responses: Name of recipie: Ingredients list plus quantities: Cooking instructions: Let's make world cuisine something... (edited) read more

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6

#dating

Allison

4mo

ESFP

Aries

Roast me

Edit: I would appreciate if you included in your answer weather or not you would date me with the intension of a relationship. Thanks. I think I'm kind of cute. But I don't get a lot of interest from guys. I have a hard time getting truthful responses on looks. I know looks aren't everything, but... (edited) read more

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#dating

AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

6mo

ENFP

Cancer

Why Inviting Girls to 'Apply' Might Leave Your DMs Empty: Tips for Genuine Engagement

This post gave me a good giggle. You mentioned that Goth Girls are a rare find, so do you honestly believe that inviting them to apply to you will magically fill your DMs? This is a classic example of what not to do! Guys, asking any girl to apply to you is bound to result in zero responses, and it... read more

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33

#dating

Jacob

2mo

INTP

Taurus

6

5

Unpopular Opinion

If your idea of flirting is sending one-word responses and playing hard to get, good luck. Ain’t nobody got time to solve your emotional escape room.

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15

#atheist

Santa

1d

INTP

Aquarius

6

7

One of the questions during my existential crisis

If an all-powerful, all-knowing, and all-loving god exists, why does extreme suffering (natural disasters, childhood cancer, etc.) happen? Most theistic responses (free will, ‘mysterious ways’) seem inadequate. How can theism rationally explain this?

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0

#demographic

Angelo

15d

INTP

Taurus

WHAT ARE AOME GREAT STATES TO LIVE IN AMD WHY?

Looking at moving to one of the seven states that don't have taxes. But I'm looking to see if anyone lives in any of them and why I should actually take a look at certain towns or cities in preference to others. Look forward to the responses if you don't know the seven states I'm talking about... (edited) read more

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3

#dating

AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

6mo

ENFP

Cancer

Some Things Should Be Reserved For Private Conversations

Posting about being a "personal heater" in a public forum tends to project an image of desperation and a willingness to settle for any form of attention, reducing your self-worth to that of a pet rather than a person with standards and individuality. This self-demotion to an animalistic level... read more

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16

#dating

Eman

5mo

INFP

Cancer

8

7

Who should pay in the first date? And does 50/50 actually work

Id love to hear ur responses lol

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30

#dating

Carla

4mo

INFJ

Gemini

1

2

I couldn’t date or further date a guy that’s emotionally erratic or hasn’t regulated his emotional responses. I wouldn’t want to ride that rollercoaster.

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#videogame

Connor

26d

INTJ

Deadside

It's late at night, so I'm not sure how many responses I'll get, but I just saw this game Deadside show up on Xbox. Has anyone played it and is it any good? It's on sale for $20 right now.

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0

#poetry

Yashraj Priyadarshan Patra

26d

INFJ

Gemini

3

2

Think about me... when I die

Promises are broken, hearts torn apart It was meant to be forever, now we are worlds apart. Validating your responses got me trapped in the dark, Feeling your sentiments makes me call for the ark. Real were my virtues, and real was the start— What changed in between? What sparked the fire? What... read more

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0

#dating

Yoni

4mo

INFJ

Capricorn

This app is overwhelming?

I created this account yesterday evening cause well we all are looking for that one person I assume. But to me it’s a bit overwhelming I woke up this morning with like 50+ people sending me love. All of them are guys? I am bisexual so where are the ladies at I also haven’t come across anyone in my... (edited) read more

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21

#funny

Kamo

10d

INTJ

Sagittarius

7

8

Answer me this

These are actually things which people actually said in court, word for word. Q: What is your date of birth? A: December 30th. Q: What year? A: Every year. Q: What gear were you in at the moment of the impact? A: Gucci sweats and Reeboks. Q: This myasthenia gravis, does it affect your memory... read more

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1

#relationshipadvice

AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

2mo

ENFP

Cancer

Subtle Behaviors That Reveal Questionable Character

You can learn a lot about a person from their small actions. It's often the subtle behaviors, rather than grand gestures, that reveal someone's true #nature. While we tend to believe people are who they present themselves to be, sometimes that’s not the case. Over time, subtle patterns can emerge... read more

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13

#dating

AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

3mo

ENFP

Cancer

7 Subtle Phrases Narcissists Use to Undermine Your Self-Worth

Narcissists are skilled manipulators who often use language to undermine others’ #confidence and control their perceptions. Their words can be subtle yet impactful, leaving you questioning your own worth and judgment. Here are seven common phrases a narcissist might use, and why they can be so... read more

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10

#psychology

AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

4mo

ENFP

Cancer

Recognizing the Traits of a High-Quality Individual

There's a significant distinction between merely considering oneself a good person and truly embodying the characteristics of a high-quality individual. This difference often hinges on self-awareness. Many high-quality individuals tend to underestimate their own value, overlooking the unique... read more

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6

#mbti

Melissa

1mo

INFJ

Capricorn

2

1

On INFJ intuition...

Sometimes I wonder how much is nature and how much is nurture. A lot of INFJ descriptions sound like they could also possibly be trauma responses. Thoughts?

18

8

#dating

Brandon

6mo

INTP

Leo

3

2

Does anyone else have this problem?

I start talking to someone, conversation is going well, lots of emoji 😂🥰😚🤪 playful back and forth, decent response time.. Then something happens and the responses become less and less frequent and there's zero energy from the other party even though nothing has changed? Like I know you gotta... read more

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15

#bpd

Ford Davies

9d

INTP

Aries

6

7

Blanket TermS & Labels, Underneath The BPD Umbrella

Making A Point: I’ve just created very clever and illustrative image! The connection I’m drawing between the often unpredictable nature of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and the famous quote from Forrest Gump, "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get," is... read more

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5

#psychology

Marie

6mo

ENTP

I remember here a post about that men don’t ask questions, and now I found a video with same name, this is actually just a different communication style (because I’m not a man and I don’t ask questions )

There are 2 types of communication style 1. Question askers navigate conversations by asking questions, getting responses, asking more questions, and hoping that they will get a question in return so that they can talk about themselves a little too. They will listen to openly shared stories, but... read more

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16

#romance

Maxfield

14d

INTJ

Libra

I Am

In a sea of broken people, I am whole In a mass of trauma responses, I am unscarred In an abyss of broken hearts, I am shining In a cynical cycle of dead chivalry and situationships, I am the outlier In a ghost of complaints and groans, I am hopeful In a world of death and judgment, I am life I... read more

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0

#friends

Ved

9d

INFP

Leo

Debate Between two Advaitins (AI GENERATED)

Below is an imagined philosophical debate between **Adi Shankaracharya** and **Sree Narayana Guru**, focusing on their differing interpretations of **Advaita Vedanta**, the nature of **Maya**, the path to liberation, and the approach to the phenomenal world. The debate is set in a neutral, timeless... read more

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0

#romance

Madhusmita Bordoloi

1mo

INFJ

Taurus

How did you know - "He's the ONE?"🧐 [HONEST RESPONSES are welcomed]

13

10

#psychology

AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

3mo

ENFP

Cancer

Greetings That May Turn People Away: Insights from Psychology

Balancing friendliness with being perceived as annoying is a delicate art. This balance is often tested when we greet others, aiming for a good first impression but sometimes achieving the opposite. Psychology tells us that certain common greetings might inadvertently make people dislike us, and... read more

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9

#romance

Hugo

5mo

INFJ

Aquarius

6

7

What do you look for in a partner

Personality traits, little quirks or even flaws I want to hear it. I hope to get responses no matter how odd or obscure.

6

14

#astrology

AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

4mo

ENFP

Cancer

Top 4 Zodiac Signs with a Unique Connection to Lunar Events 🌕🌗

The #moon, a captivating and enigmatic presence in the night #sky, has influenced our world for millennia. Many believe it has a profound impact on our #emotions and behaviors. Interestingly, certain zodiac signs are thought to have a stronger connection to the moon than others. In this post I will... read more

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2

#autism

Adam

1mo

INTP

Taurus

2

1

Why?

I tend to overanalyze vibes I get from people I interact with and if there's a slight language barrier it's even worse. Why do people have to treat us so terrible for analyzing their responses (sometimes wrongly) I know in my case I do it for their comfort and try not to bombard them with questions... read more

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