(*Note: If I'm wrong about something here please enlighten me. Just please don't be rude about it.*) I get it...people can be frustrating but stop pointing fingers because the opposite sex might not agree with things you're posting. He or she may be going through a lot & don't need your judgment thrown at them for how they respond to a post or question. Idk why some folks are so hell bent on having the "perfect answer" to something.

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A question is because of curiosiry not because of sexism. Gender wars are also dumb if its just pure hate because men and women need each other to act otherwise is just wrong.

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