When you meet someone what is the first thing you notice?

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Carla ♡

7d

INFJ

Gemini

1

2

Get over your ex completely before you try to get to know someone. Heal from it and leave that 💩 in the past. Because you will bring problems to an innocent person. They deserve better. So detach from your ex completely and genuinely heal.

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Genesis

8d

ENTJ

6

7

To my ladies who have always been told that you’re too opinionated, too much, too emotional, too strong willed …. You need a man with a better bal of masc energy than they have feminine energy. Your masc energy could be one of the reasons why you continue to attract people who are more fem

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Bo

3d

ISTP

Aquarius

Rate me!

In my head! Not having much luck so I'm looking to be critiqued, judged, roasted, and scored! Do your worst! Or best? I mean you can do your mediocrist if you want too, you do you boo.

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Genesis

5d

ENTJ

6

7

The current climate in my city 😀😭

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Ace

2y

INFJ

Taurus

How do you get past the notion that you are not worthy of having a girlfriend?

I always had this idea in my brain that I'm not good enough to have a girlfriend. That I'm ugly(I haven't found anyone that seem to show any interest in me.) And not successful enough to have do be in my life. How do I get past this ? It's really not attractive to be self pitying but I do not know... (edited) read more

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Genesis

9d

ENTJ

6

7

Single moms don’t chase. So if you’re in need of someone who’s going to go after you… skip us pls. Unless my kids 18 and out the house .. I have no time for that 😭 sorry Pookie

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Bo

15d

ISTP

Aquarius

How has your experience been on this app?

Ive met one person off this app so far, that has been within reasonable range, and it was a really good experience except that it was very one-sided. It took me a very long time and a whole lot of luck. So im curious what others experiences are? Especially for the more rural mid-westerners like... read more

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Timothy

2y

ESTJ

Aries

Clothes?

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Genesis

27d

ENTJ

6

7

You’re more likely to say yes, to a second date if the first date included an active sport (am activity raises their heart rate) Try it out and lmk!😅 (edited)

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Kim

2y

INFP

Cancer

7

8

Share a tip

Drop your answer if you fall in the situation of any of these 3. Share your story. 😁 Pursuing or courting someone . Have you tried pursuing someone who initially doesn't like you, but over some time they eventually gave in? How were you able to do it? or Have you been the one, who was being... read more

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Genesis

27d

ENTJ

6

7

At this point intentionally start telling your friends about them so that they DO disappear 🙂‍↔️ make sure to say something extra nice about em so they get out of your life same day. 😛 girl math

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Account Deleted

5mo

INTJ

3

4

A self love reminder 💘👤

I want to remind you that you do not need to chase. In fact, the energy “chasing” often repels when it forms into an energy of desperation or neediness. Yes, you "chase" your dreams... Yes, you put in effort for those you love, you like, you enjoy... But, you also do not need to bend, contort... (edited) read more

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Genesis

7mo

ENTJ

6

7

As someone who grew up in a 3rd world country and born in 1996…. It’s so easy for me to relate with Boomers, Gen X and Millenials😭 that’s why I could go for your daddy, you or your younger brother my age 🙂‍↔️😂 (unhinged post😭) (edited)

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Mark

3mo

INTP

Pisces

.

Is anyone else starting to think that being on these dating apps is a waste of time?

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Genesis

4mo

ENTJ

6

7

Pls pls pls don’t hit girls up with “ can I get more pictures of you?” It honestly comes across as you’re not satisfied with what you already have seen of her and that’s not a good feeling for a woman. Wait until she feels comfortable to send.

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Firda

8mo

INTP

🤕🤧

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Kayla

4mo

INFP

Sagittarius

5

6

Confidence

How do you guys feel confident in yourself after a break up? it's been like 5 months now since but I've been struggling with confidence,when your in a relationship you feel great ,someone chose you etc. but when they stop you tend to question yourself atleast I do.

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Nereida 🌸

6mo

ENFJ

6

7

Is swiping for others a thing?

I got a strange question from a client yesterday. He said: “If I find someone who can do the swiping and chatting for me and just give me a summary of what was said just before going to a date, I’d be willing to pay for it.“ Curious to hear your thoughts 🧐

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Genesis

4mo

ENTJ

6

7

Men : “Women should—“🤫 how about y’all stop murdering us first. Or maybe idk start holding each other accountable for how unsafe some of y’all have made women feel.

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Genesis

7mo

ENTJ

6

7

Mannn as a woman I’m starting to “think like a man” because why the heck would I hope to be married one day when I can strive to be successful enough to have my own cook and assistant in my own home ?? And I don’t have to worry about attachment and bs

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Genesis

7mo

ENTJ

6

7

😆

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Genesis

5mo

ENTJ

6

7

Idk why but I have a really bad habit of trying to get whoever I’m dating/seeing to get back with their ex 🥴 aside from self sabotage why is this? 😭 it’s like I see that they were happy and I’m just not convinced that they shouldn’t be together again . Is it the psych student in me?? 😆😆

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Genesis

8mo

ENTJ

6

7

I can’t stand it when men do that thing. When they undermine your intelligence as a woman. Why do y’all do that or is that a personality trait ?

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Genesis

8mo

ENTJ

6

7

I can’t stand women who

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Genesis

4mo

ENTJ

6

7

If you want to get to know a man better and see if he’s someone you could feel safe around.. just mention that violence against women has increased and ask him how he would solve it. It’s disturbing how many will deflect and not hold other men accountable.

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Firda

7mo

INTP

NOTED 📝

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Todd

5mo

INFP

Pisces

9

1

Online Dating

Be careful out there #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #memes (edited)

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Genesis

8mo

ENTJ

6

7

Your biggest enemy is you thinking that someone’s going to come and rescue you and be with you. Go live and stop thinking about meeting “the one”. It’s over lol

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Rachel

2mo

ESFP

Aries

8

7

Advice for people:

Profil as intetest and hobbies, if you talk to someone, don't ask their interest. It only show you didn't read their profil. It show you only get interest by their look. And no it's a terrible idea to start a conversation with ask their interest, start directly with stuff about your common... (edited) read more

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Genesis

5mo

ENTJ

6

7

Quickest way you can bald as a man is by always wearing a damn hat. If you’re going to wear one make sure it’s silk lined !! Curly hair or not. The head on your hair deserves to breathe! 😂😭

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Nereida 🌸

7mo

ENFJ

6

7

Swipe intentionally

If you think everyone is a good fit, you'll end up frustrated and blame the apps for your dating experience. Figure out what kind of person and what kind of relationship you are looking for. Swipe accordingly. (edited)

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Firda

7mo

INTP

oopsie woopsie

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Firda

7mo

INTP

if he wanted to, he would. that's the point

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Genesis

6mo

ENTJ

6

7

You know… I commonly clown on the fact that we’re on dating apps to look for relationships/hook ups but boomers were out here putting ads on newspapers to find the same thing 😂 different methods, same goal 😭

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Genesis

8mo

ENTJ

6

7

Ladies, 80% of the new HIV diagnosis in America were men. (2022). I’ll just leave it at that. I hope everyone’s being safe out here 🫶🫶 including being honest about diagnosis.

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Nereida 🌸

7mo

ENFJ

6

7

Less texting, more real-life meetings

Texting isn’t the best way to connect with people. Chatting is great for breaking the ice and setting up a date, but dragging it out too long? That’s where things tend to fizzle. So many people get stuck in endless conversations, get frustrated, and never actually meet. Such a missed... read more

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Genesis

8mo

ENTJ

6

7

If we are getting to know each other long distance, pls don’t get flirty or express wanting me unless you’re about to hop on a plane tomorrow and meet me lol 😂 I have anxious attachment and long distance ain’t it for anymore

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Genesis

8mo

ENTJ

6

7

My other friend who’s 28 and I have decided that if we are not engaged by 30 we are just going to get a home together and start a life. Life’sh

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Genesis

9mo

ENTJ

6

7

I’ve been asking people, “ if I were to run a background check on you what would I find”. Recommend 10/10. Dating apps have made dating way too casual. 🥴 this is SEERIOUUSSS 🐥🐥

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Genesis

9mo

ENTJ

6

7

Alright men tell me 3 things you know about ovulation and how it affects XX behavior 🌝

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Firda

7mo

INTP

🧟‍♀️

#meme #memes #jokes #funny #humor #humour #sarcasm #single #dating #datingadvice #relationship #relationshipadvice #situationships #lovelife #romance #romancecomedy #comedy #words

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Genesis

9mo

ENTJ

6

7

Voice message > text message Love, A neurodivergent brain

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Nereida 🌸

7mo

ENFJ

6

7

hard truths about modern dating

Dating isn’t harder in 2024. But the rules have changed and you need a new playbook If you’re struggling, it’s not your looks, your height, or your job. It’s your approach. Here are 5 hard truths about modern dating, and how to win at it: 1. Stop chasing, start attracting. If you're constantly... read more