Im just sharing my experience I dont know whether I'm too nice or too stupid Before I had married my ex, I had a weird sense that eventually became a reality when I had random men message me that my significant other was unfaithful Needless to say, I confronted her about it only to hear "It'll... read more

23d

ISTJ

Virgo

🤣🤣they said they have money.

The fact was they just said that too see how a woman give up on money. Hey hey its not like that. Yes we need money but give up until you think woman always wanted money only?? I think its your ex amd ex and other ex is. NOT ME.

13d

ISTP

Leo

🥲

Lord, I need it. First day of the year and I have to talk to the roofing company about how I am paying back the insurance money my ex took... Happy new year 🫠🎊

15d

ISTP

Gemini

Really struggling right now

It's so fresh, the split is really dont know what to do with my own hands

14d

ISFP

Gemini

9 years

Found out a few weeks ago my entire relationship has been a lie. The betrayal is debilitating. It's not the first heartache I've ever had but this one hurts like none other. 9 years, for what? I want this sick feeling in the pit of my stomach to go away.

19d

ENTJ

Cancer

Love after divorce?

Can we have hope?!?!?

1mo

INTP

Scorpio

11 months

These past 11 months have been pretty challenging emotionally and mentally. It has been hard to come to terms with the end of a 13 year "relationship" that is now no contact. It has been made pretty clear, looking back over the years and even more recently, that what we were doing wasn't good,... read more

4mo

ENTP

Capricorn

Divorce

She left and now I'm depressed and I haven't ate in a week. How does one get the strength to do things that used to bring yourself joy anymore?

10d

ENFP

Taurus

Divorce came through just before Christmas,hoping the new year will be better than last year. Rich 41 from London

29d

INTP

I am part of this club now:) It was not a choice for me, so it's a bit complicated. Would love to hear your story, to not feel alone, maybe with some advice to get through to the end, safe and sound. I don't know what I need to do. (edited)

1mo

INFJ

Virgo

Genuine vulnerable question

Following divorce, how did you know you were actually ready to commit to a serious relationship? How did you prepare for that and feel ready to trust your own judgment again? The fear of getting stuck in another bad relationship is strong when I’m faced with the actual prospect of a relationship.

22d

INTJ

Scorpio

Dark Nights

“When commitment is real on one side only, what remains? My marriage ended bcz of broken trust, betrayal and pusedo feminism. It hurt, changed me, but didn’t harden me. Is there a love where loyalty isn’t questioned?”

3mo

ENTJ

Cancer

so how does getting to know someone work now?

partner and i split after 10 years, and it is apparent things have changed... what are do's? don'ts? not in a rush to date, but want to familiarize myself with the modern climate

7mo

INTJ

Capricorn

Somehow it wasn't real until this moment.

2mo

INTP

Taurus

How do you trust again?

Divorce finalized. I’ve already grieved the marriage and the person she used to be (the one I married). What I’m struggling with now is trust. When we met, she was “militantly monogamous.” She’d even 🐔block her friends at bars if they flirted outside their relationships. Then she had an... read more

2mo

INFJ

Virgo

If you’ve been Betrayed

Just wanted to leave an amazing book recommendation here. “Living and Loving After Betrayal” by Steven Stozny is phenomenal in explaining why you might feel the way you do and how to work through it and become stronger for it. Hope it helps someone like it did me.

4mo

INFJ

Scorpio

I don't believe soulmates exist.

I believe that love's a choice that you make everyday when you wake up. Sometimes it's a hard choice, sometimes it's an easy choice, but it's always a choice to find the best in the person you're with. My ex-wife fell out of love with me years ago. That was why it was so easy for her to have an... (edited) read more

4mo

INTJ

Pisces

How do you all get back in the game?

I havent been with anyone but my ex wife, im very... I dont want to say picky but, selective? I dont want to just date to date, I look at everyone with intention for long term/forever. Im very insecure and dont quite live in a place there is much to chose from. I dont know how to meet people.

8mo

ENTP

Aquarius

Bankruptcy and divorce

My wife and I officially began paying our bankruptcy in March. I'd say about 65% - 70% of the debt was hers before we signed into a joint bankruptcy. She is leaving me for another man. How bad is this going to be for me? Has anyone else experienced anything similar? (edited)

2mo

ENTJ

Aquarius

Life after break up songs

What songs do you think are perfect for life after a breakup?

6mo

ENTP

Leo

Why is everyone on this thing so jaded? Me and my ex are still great friends. Let me hear from others who are still friends with their exspouse

2mo

INTP

Leo

Time to move out

Well, I pick up the keys to my new place next week. Was going to happen eventually, we couldn't separate and stay living together forever. But been 14 years since I last lived on my own so a bit anxious. Still got to sort the actual legal divorce out but its another stage done (edited)

7mo

ENTP

Post-Divorce

What have you learned about yourself? I tend to do more for others than myself and I learned my happiness is more important.

1mo

ENFP

Virgo

Back into the swing of things

Getting back into the dating pool for the first time in 8 years. I am both nervous and excited

6mo

ENTJ

Capricorn

When the divorce gets messy!!! 🤦🏾🤷🏾😉🤣🤣🤣👏🏾

2mo

ISTP

Leo

🥲

Live and learn, they say. I live, yet haven't learned apparently 😅

2mo

INTJ

DIVORCE DOES NOT BREAK THE BOND OF MARRIAGE, whether you are religious or not, it applies to everyone.

Romans 7:[2] So a married woman is bound by the law to her husband while he lives; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that bound her to her husband. [3] So if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is... read more