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Juan
Juan

25d

ENFJ

Sagittarius

How can people achieve happiness?

I’ve done everything in my power to achieve permanent happiness. I thought that my personality of fixer and people pleaser would work its magic and I would end up being more appreciated and maybe with someone who I can be intimate and loyal with, but most of the times all I get is that I end up being used and sometimes I can’t differ in between which one is which. When I expose myself with such vulnerability I feel like I’m acting like a pick me guy and it feels awful cause I’m putting myself out there for random people to know my weak side.

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Ellie❀
Ellie❀

25d

INFP

Aquarius

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Wish I could give good advice but I don’t think people really live happy lives, most just got really good at faking it. It’s just an illusion to blind ourselves from the pain. All I can say is life throws you curves but you gotta learn to swerve and roll w/ the punches. Live for yourself and try not to expect anything from anyone, life is better that way.

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Kristen
Kristen

25d

INFJ

Pisces

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Oh no, I'm a people pleaser and fixer and you need to weed that part of yourself out. It's lovely to always being there for other people but at some point you lose touch with your needs and likes and dislikes and goals and of course no one likes us because we come across as pandering, simple desperate fools. Get your personality back. Make sure you go do things out of your comfort zone and do them ALONE. That will help remind you of what it feels like to do something for you without the focus being on the people you're with. Trust me. Lessons learned recently, here. (edited)

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