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Learning through others silence

A few days ago I drove 2 1/2 hours to meet a girl I was talking to for around 8 months for a date. We had met once before and clicked well, tried long distance and she then ghosted me from October to February. She said she would be a better communicator. But when I arrived at our meeting place she... read more

Shopping for my garden

Looking forward to putting these in our 9 garden beds….California love

Putting up with human's mundane hobbies

Putting myself out there

I keep sticking my head back into the dating scene and I'm proven I'm not built for this era of dating. Genuine connection through conversations, wanting something serious and being yearned for not lusted after. I'm a hopeless romantic in a world of one night stands. I'm continuously told that... (edited) read more

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I honestly admire people who are selfish, people who have mastered the art of putting themselves first without feeling guilty. Sometimes I wish I could be less considerate too, and only think about myself. Because the truth is, when you sacrifice for others, you're the one left carrying the pain.... read more

Dating in your 40s as a woman

I don’t know about you but lately the dating scene is different. Putting yourself out there on apps can be overwhelming and discouraging. lol it’s more work than it should be? Just me?!