Daniel
Daniel

1y

ENFJ

Aries

7
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I don’t know if I believe in real love anymore. I’ve tried with so many different folks that at this point I’m just like… I don’t know. Maybe I’m the outlier. Maybe I don’t get a person. I don’t know how to push those negative thoughts down. I’ve lost so much on the road to where I am that now I struggle to believe I will ever find a partner in life.

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Frank Toth

Frank Toth

1y

ENTJ

Libra

4
5

Perhaps the root of the problem is not that you can't find a partner, but that you feel you need a partner so desperately. Love and companionship can be found in more than just romance. Our societies have been brainwashed and indoctrinated into think we HAVE to have a partner, we HAVE to get married, have kids, etc. But romance isn't required to live a full, happy life. Love is. And love can be found in many, many forms.

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Elena

Elena

1y

INFJ

Gemini

2
1

Ahh dont feel like that youll meet the right one for you it usually happens when you least expect it! 😊

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Jonathan

Jonathan

1y

ENFP

Leo

7
8

I feel you brother. It's tough. But I vibe with Frank Toth. We don't need a relationship. Hell.. Half the time idk why I have any business looking for someone. I think it's just that feeling of wanting someone to care about you... But can you give that person the same love if you don't care more about you and your needs? But ultimately.. It's human to want someone. Everyone deserves love. Everyone. So.. I guess.. Give yourself a chance and love you first? Take you out on dates? Tell yourself how beautiful you are? Because you are beautiful for wanting to love and be loved. Men can be beautiful too and I wish we were told that so maybe we can stop trying to catch the sun with our bare hands.

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Chris

Chris

1y

INTP

Cancer

To give credit where credit is due , live long and prosper , I appreciate a trekkie wherever they are , now to address the other issue , you might want to move to another location, the countryside is a bit better to find a partner, fewer people have the internet

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