I know you're afraid of caring deeply because you can't handle it when they eventually start avoiding you. I know you're tired of chasing love that seems always out of grip. I know you've been made to feel like your love always withers, and you can't count on people to stay. But what if you're not the problem nor the fact that you love so deeply? What if the source of your pain has never been the sincerity of your love and how you've come to hate your heart for caring so much? What if the problem has always been the people you pour yourself into? The right person will know how to love you without you having to beg. This is because they will be genuinely interested in learning you, and they will hear you and your wishes as easily as a best friend would. Their joy will be found in bringing you joy, and you will be a dream come true for them. One day, you will be someone's favourite thing. And then you won't have to chase again, because they won't run. You won't need to be on guard because they will make you feel safe and at home. You won't need to hide parts of yourself because they will lead the way in showing you every part of themselves. The right person will feel like an old friend making a comeback into your life. Your connection will feel timeless and eternal. The right person will feel like a twin flame. Then you will understand why it never worked with everyone else and why it was needless to cling on to people who wanted to leave. You will also see how easy it is to totally miss out on your love if you keep holding on to people who drain your spirit. You will understand that it's not love that hurt you but someone who couldn't love you correctly.

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