Drain Community

Today, I made a small promise to myself: I won't chase the things that drain me, I'll make more time for the things that make me happy. Sometimes, the biggest change starts with the smallest decision. What's the best thing you did for yourself today? 🌿

While short-term or casual relationships can provide fun, flexibility, and low-pressure social interaction, they also come with a distinct set of emotional, psychological, and logistical drawbacks

1. Superficiality & Deep Isolation • ​Surface-Level Intimacy Casual arrangements tend to focus heavily on physical chemistry or short-term entertainment. They rarely provide deep mutual understanding, shared history, or unconditional acceptance. • ​The Loneliness Paradox Having quick access to... read more

DIVORCE..

Divorce is never good choice but it's not the worst as well. When a marriage feel like a hell, divorce is the best choice. For me, I don't want give example to my kids that treating each other ( husband/wife) poorly is normal. Staying for the kids? I find is the common reason because I did it too... read more

We only have this one life

You do not need to suffer to prove your worth to anyone. You don’t need to be on the ground, halfway to your grave, to show how much you’re committed. This idea that we have to hurt ourselves in order to get ahead, to show our value, has done such terrible harm. If you’re somewhere you shouldn’t... read more

To my ex

You were the worse partner I had the person who lied to me and physically abused me all I had done for you all my years of effort I put in just because I had loved you I’m glad your gone and out of my life I can’t stand a man who hurts woman and I second that abuse is not tolerated on my part of... read more

Because the most tiring thing isn't walking alone, but meeting so many different versions of humanity that drain your energy along the way..(: