Abused Community

Why do we go back to what used to hurt us?

I know I was abused I know I've been verbally and mentally hurt by this family member I know I was good in their eyes as long as I said yes and I would do it I know I was an easy target because I never asked for anything back just one nice word, and to avoid getting hurt by them I know I was sad… read more

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When you actively participate in ruining somebody's image or reputation, do you really think you're doing a great job when you only know one side of the story? You're only getting the side of the abuser (which means you're an abuser) and not the side of somebody who's being actively abused. Ask… read more

Sometimes

You may be taken advantaged of, abused, or humiliated. But choosing to stay humble and maintaining peace does not mean you’re weak.

"Give but don't allow yourself to be used. Love but don't allow your heart to be abused. Trust but don't be naive. Listen but don't lose your own voice." (edited)

Narcissism 🕸️

So tired of getting caught and narcissistic webs and not realizing it until it's too late. And the damage is done. I just want to love and be loved, and feel safe. I wish I understood what I needed to do to achieve this, and avoid being abused.

We need to start holding female child predators accountable.

As someone who was sexually assaulted and abused by an older woman in my adolescence, we NEED to start holding female predators more accountable for their actions. It bothers me so much that we still have this disgusting subculture of dudes going "oh that boy must have been lucky" whenever the… read more

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One of my patients was abused by her daughter and asked that she not be allowed to visit. Daughter: If you don't let me see my mother I will be contacting your supervisor and facility administration. Me: Ma'am you can CC Jesus... IDC.

Emotional damage

Sometimes being kindhearted abused by others, they will only used you when they needed you,by the ungrateful people😏 (edited)

violence is bad

Not “violence against women.” Not “violence against children.” Not because those don’t matter, but because limiting the language limits who we’re willing to see. Men are human. And yet violence against men is often invisible, minimized, or treated as something they should “handle.” Men are… read more

Red flag

So I started talking to someone of here about a year ago. Things were going great, then complaints. About my hair, my clothes, the fact I owned a cat. She threw a tantrum because I wouldn't cut my hair the way she wanted it. Or because I kept wearing the kinda clothes I wear. We stopped talking for… read more

She’s not crazy… she was abused.

She learned how to stay quiet in rooms where she should’ve been protected. She learned how to survive in love that felt more like a battlefield. She’s not irrational.... she’s carrying pain that no one ever apologized for. The kind of pain that teaches you to question your own reality, just because… read more

Narcissists often shift blame, play the victim, manipulate situations, fabricate stories, and use gaslighting. Does that mean people who claim to have been badly abused by their partner should automatically be questioned?

Perspective

Years ago I volunteered/worked at a women’s shelter (abused by partners). Many ignored the problem and went back to partner . Why thinking they can fix it ! There a point nothing you can do works . So best to get out of relationship . The partner convinces them they will change , say sorry… (edited) read more

I have a lot going on

And I do understand that but its a double edge sword. I need money to live so I HAVE to work. But everything I HAVE to do is insane. I have to keep my eletricity off for at least 12-14 hours because otherwise my eleteic bill is $250-$400 and I just do not have that kind of money. So here I am,… read more

Heaven in a person

ONE CAN NEVER TRULY UNDERSTAND SOMEONE'S PAIN. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S ROOTED SINCE CHILDHOOD. CARRYING THE TRAUMA OF BEING PHYSICALLY AND VIOLENTLY ABUSED, AND GROWING UP IN AN ENVIRONMENT WITHOUT LOVE AND AFFECTION. WHERE YOU HAD TO SUPPRESS EVERYTHING BECAUSE YOU WASN'T ALLOWED TO SHOW… read more

I have been abused because I sent the first message I dont think I can go for it anymore.

Dog lover

Grew up with dogs different sizes and types. From poodle , mixed , German shepherd , Keeshond Rescue dogs. All with different personalities Smartest the Shepard Trojan rescued a man from drowning . Gentle Keeshond loved to sit on lap not a small dog . Not sure about this gif. That dog is… (edited) read more

smile

Lost my smile along time ago from all the times I been hurt over the years but managed to re find my sweet and loving Side even tho I'm very terrified of love and terrified of getting hurt again or thrown way and being verbally abused from my past relationships I was in it hurt and it hurts to find… read more

After doing all that, in multiple games...

Oldie but goodie! You can see the pixels, which makes it even better! Old reused and abused memes = good!

Gaming dystopia was decades in the making🚀

✅First, the manual disappeared ✅Then the map ✅And then the disc ✅Gameplay became more passive ✅Online/multiplayer became paid ✅Digital was pushed more ✅Ownership became a “license to access” ✅Discs require extra downloads ✅Now they want to end the disc ✅Consoles are close to $1000 ✅Soon they will… read more

Exercise Fuels the Mind and the Body

I am 18 months out of the most toxic relationship of my life. I used to think my mind was unbreakable. That I was able to overcome anything I wanted to with ease. I was wrong. I wasn't brutalized by a large man beating me. I wasn't I physically abused. My life was entirely wrecked by a 5 foot tall,… read more

Is toxic love real love ?

no love is toxic. but it is just abused to manipulate n play mind games. invest ur time better. u can do better. and ur time cant get back

Words Are Things

Young minds With attendant blank faces Look askance at me Asking me With my imperfect wisdom To unlock the secrets Of prose, drama and poetry For what is literature But an old cupboard of secrets Yearning to be set free? O Masters We are but poor images Replicas of ancient brilliances… read more

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Freedom is an illusion Its a lemmings delusion You are free To work and pay taxes thats your duty No one is free To live without the fear of penalty You can live in peace As long as you agree To do as you are told Until you are too old To do any thing bold Then they send you out into the… read more

I live in an uncomfortable environment. It seems the neighbors where I live love to gossip, about me. They talk about my private area being dirty and call it vulgar names. We are supposed to be a loving community here, but the neighbors seem to themselves, cruel and cold. I hate living here.

Everybody is recluse and unfriendly. My family also is not 100% supportive of my needs. I want to leave but have nowhere else to go and it is not like I can up and leave because my Dad is my payee and manages my finances because I get SSDI and SSI and food stamps and he is also my rent lease and… read more

AI creepy

The AI thing is kinda weird isn't it? It's effectively a function to profile and list people, which is kind of uncomfortable and will no doubt be abused, but if you're looking for specifically body characteristics it's shocking how effective it is. I feel the world would probably be better without… read more

Is MGTOW or Red Pill Content bad if used and not abused?

Hello, Boo World!

Hello Boo World! My name is Derreck, I am 31 years old and I am new here to Boo. Im a witty, sarcastic and well as they say a smartass; but honestly putting that all to the side I really think im a good person just trying to find my purpose in this world. Just a dude with AuDHD who is stubborn,… (edited) read more

Mental health is extremely important!

So the past seven days have been a lot, far too much for me to handle and process due to the following events happening one after another with no time to fully process the first thing before the next comes along First thing was that last Thursday I was diagnosed with Cyclothymia (Mild Bipolar… read more