Codependent Community

Let us all have a moment of silence

For the people who are trapped in codependent toxic narcissistic abusive relationship not understanding what manipulation is. Being alone is such a freedom compared to the hell they are trapped in Opersits attract , Wanting somone to love you Will bring you somone who doesn't Original quote by... (edited) read more

How to stop being codependent?

Nice to meet you

Looking to just make some friends. I'm not good at peopling and I ramble, but I'm honest, weird, kinda crazy, and love animals. And books. So let's just start a conversation: if you could be any animal (extinct or not/fictional or real), what would it be and why? I would be a cat of any kind.... read more

Softness

Being soft is something I've struggled with, my whole life. Trauma young and seeing my older sister be hit or bullied for her softness, and for being different, taught me that to be soft was to be weak. Id built a cold wall around myself before i even started school. With this wall around me, ... read more

Whats one way youre learning to pour into your own cup?

I struggle with balancing vulnerability and independence. I have been in a codependent relationship before. How do you manage pouring into your cup before others?

Why I believe some people just want the benefits of a relationship and are not ready for one.

I'm in a relationship and the first thing I tell people is it can be great with the right person but it takes work and labour and investment that some people aren't used to... and need to learn to GET used to it if they want a happy and secure relationship. What is that work? It's called Emotional... (edited) read more