Codependent Community

How to stop being codependent?

Nice to meet you

Looking to just make some friends. I'm not good at peopling and I ramble, but I'm honest, weird, kinda crazy, and love animals. And books. So let's just start a conversation: if you could be any animal (extinct or not/fictional or real), what would it be and why? I would be a cat of any kind.... read more

Why I believe some people just want the benefits of a relationship and are not ready for one.

I'm in a relationship and the first thing I tell people is it can be great with the right person but it takes work and labour and investment that some people aren't used to... and need to learn to GET used to it if they want a happy and secure relationship. What is that work? It's called Emotional... (edited) read more

Just got out of a long-term relationship and realized it's actually cripplingly lonely!

How do people actually make friends in the real world? I was so codependent for such a long time. If anyone would love to talk about literally anything, my dms are open!

Ugh where are all the adorable insane codependent women

Someone who will lock me in their basement chained up to a radiator until I develop Stockholm syndrome so I can never leave.

Softness

Being soft is something I've struggled with, my whole life. Trauma young and seeing my older sister be hit or bullied for her softness, and for being different, taught me that to be soft was to be weak. Id built a cold wall around myself before i even started school. With this wall around me, ... read more