Anxious Community

Bad habit/venting

A common thing with me is that I try something out, and if I don't like it, forget about it I'm outta there. Could I say this is basically what happened with me and the military? I joined in a hurry because I was terrified of failing in life and I wanted to get out of the nest as soon as I... read more

The more I watch this show..the more I realise how those two have Avoidant and Anxious style attachments.

Strange how Sam is the avoidant, whilst Dean the anxious, maybe not so strange given how I act and who I prefer.

A new guy flirting with me

I'm sure of this because he very conveniently was checking out when I opened back up register lol. He says my name when he speaks to me so he can see he has my attention lol. Thing is, I'm extremely anxious to ask his name. I want to take a step but I'm scared to because it would only be one step... read more

Emotional safety than Attraction.

Ctto Matthew Hussey When we focus on how we feel about someone, it’s easy to get swept up in the things that excite our ego: their charm, their confidence, their charisma . . . But if we don’t pay attention to how they actually make us "feel in their presence", we risk falling for someone who... read more

Love and need

Today I was asked what I think the difference is between love and need. Here’s my take. What’s yours? Love Feeling. Freeing. Comes from wholeness. Warm. Gentle. Generous. Expansion. Wanting you happy. Care. Respect. Two individuals who choose each other. Need Necessity. Hunger. Comes from... read more

B1 German

I’m someone who has the belief of never failing any exam I decide to undergo. But German B1 exam has me feeling a little anxious and excited at the same time. It’s my first language exam and I’m going straight for B1 Should I rethink it?