Anxious Community

Be yourself

But, also "don't be weird". Roughly translated to: "Be yourself. Unless you're weird. In that case, be someone else." POV: You're a genuine person who is anxious about being themselves and/or opening up.

Feeling anxious.

I've been dealing with endometriosis for 9 years. I'm finally getting surgery for it, but the closer the day gets the more nervous I get. Maybe I'll call my therapist if she's available.

The Psychology of Romantic Chemistry🌌💖✨

1.Effortless Comfort Some people aren't great talkers, but simply being with them makes you feel so at ease that you naturally open up without even trying. ​2.Feeling Seen and Heard When you share something, they don’t just hear the words; they truly hold and acknowledge your feelings. ​3.Shared... read more

Looking for local friends 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Hi I'm Laura! I'm 33 and I live in the Southside of Glasgow with my partner and cat. 😺 I'm queer and autistic/neurodivergent. 🏳️‍🌈 Just looking for female friendships. I'm a huge nerd and love video games, board/tabletop games, movies, music, anime & TV shows and arts & crafts. I love animals.... (edited) read more

Anxious attachment

I've been dealing with anxious attachment issues my whole life. The worst is when I'm trying to be romantic, constantly minimizing my needs and trying to put the other person on a pedestal out of fear they'll leave. Asking for reassurance and check ins feels like cutting wires on a time bomb. I... read more

Actions, not words

Many people think ENFPs fall for beautiful words and compliments. But honestly, I almost never listen to what men promise. For me, a man is not about words. It is about how he acts. You see a video: a man walks into the room calm, confident, with steady eyes, and you look at him with shining eyes... read more