Uluntu lwe-Coexist
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Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
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Uluntu lwe-coexist, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
17 IISOULS
KONKE
coexist
Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
Iiposti Ezinxulumeneyo
Ukuba sikhawulelwe kwiinto ezimele zibe khona kunye nokungabi khona, kufuneka kube neentlobo eziphangaleleyo kwiintsebenzo zazo, kuba omnye akakwazi ukwenza njengomnye ngexesha lezo ntsebenzo. Umbuzo ngu, njani na into eyahlula yona kwi nto engaphandle?( ilungisiwe)

Ndizibuza: Ungayiphila njani ubuhle kunye neengozi ngolu hlobo? Makabahlale ngokuthula abo bathathwe namhlanje ngalo lonke ulwandle.

Uke waba nomdla, kwaye ubomi bakho buhamba njengoko ubuhlele, njengemithandazo ephendulweyo kodwa usafuna ukungabikho, kwaye ufuna ukuvuma? NgokwePsychology: "Kutheni Ungaziva Uthando… kwaye Usafuna Ukungabikho" 1. Ngokuba ingqondo yomntu ingabamba iimvakalelo ezimbini ngaxeshanye. Uthando…funda okungakumbi
Oomama abanakukhalipha, abaphumli, kwaye abathule, njengoko abaninzi bephoswa ukuba bakholelwe. Umfazi ophilayo kwi-energi yakhe yobukhosikazi ungumkhuseli kwi-ntliziyo yakhe. Uqhaqhazela, unomdla, akagcini ngentloko yakhe, kwaye uya kuqhwaba xa abo abathandayo—kubandakanywa yena—bephantsi…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
Yintoni ongayenzayo ukuba umntu ophuma kwixesha lakho elidlulileyo engena kwiimeko zakho zangoku, hayi ngexesha elincinane, kodwa ixesha elide, kwaye awunako ukukhetha ngaphandle kokuphila kunye?
Xa ndandisengumntwana, ndandikholelwa kwihlabathi eligcwele uthando. Ndacinga ukuba uthando lwaluthathwe kum, kodwa kwakungum misunderstanding nje. Njengoko ndandikhula ndaba ngumntu omdala, ndandikholelwa ukuba ihlabathi lingahlanganiswa ukuze kube nentshisekelo efanayo—ukuba iipolitiki, iinkolo,…funda okungakumbi
Uguqule omnye wabalinganiswa bam waba yinto engaziwayo yokoyika kuba kutheni na ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Ukwenza ngokukhululekileyo, ipeni, kunye nomdlandla wokudweba akufanele kube khona lmao



Ndifuna ukuvula ingxoxo ethule kodwa eqondileyo. Kutheni kubonakala kunzima kangaka kubatshayo nabavapayo ukuba bazi ngendawo yomoya ababelana ngayo nabanye abantu? Hayi ngentloni. Hayi ngoxanduva. Ngemfundo elula. Umoya uhamba. Iikhemikhali zihlala. Iimilo zisebenza. Abanye abantu bafumana…funda okungakumbi
Ndineminyaka engama-37, ndingumbhali, ndinobuhlobo, ndithule kwaye ndingumntu ophumlayo; ubuhlobo nothando kunzima kwaye kufana nokungabi khona ngenxa yeengxaki ezidlulileyo. Ndiyabona ukuba njengoko ndikhula, abantu bayawuthanda uthando lwam lokubhala kwaye baphosa umbono wam. Andingumqondiso…funda okungakumbi
Ngokungxama okwenziwe ngothando, ndiyathandabuza ukufaka umbono wam kwi nyaka entsha. Ndiyazama ukugwema umbono ophantsi wokuba nyaka ezayo iyakuba ngcono. Ngaphakathi kweemfuno kunye nezithintelo, ndiphumelele ukuphuma kwiimeko ezimbi ukuze ndime ndedwa.. Njengoko ndithi goodbye ku 2025, ndifuna…funda okungakumbi

Ndiyumbhali onobubele, othuleyo, ongenamahluko, kwaye ndiyaziva njengoko ndikhula ndiyabona abantu bathanda ubhaliso endilwenza kwaye baphosa ingqondo engalunganga kum. Andingumqondiso kwiingxelo zam. Kuba leyo yinto eyakhiwe kwiimfuno zam ezingavumelekanga kunye nemibono yokuba ndifuna uthando…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
Ngenkathi ndijolise kule filimu ethambileyo, ethokozisayo, ndafumanisa ukuba ndiyifaka ngokwemvelo kwiimeko ezicacileyo neziqhathanisayo ne 500 Days of Summer. Uqhathaniso olwenza sibuze kwakhona: Ngaba uthando lwenene luyinkxalabo? Zombini ezi msebenzi zikhankanya indawo phakathi kobuhlobo…funda okungakumbi



Umbono wakho... Ungalindela njani ukuba le miba mibini yeempawu zibe khona kubudlelwane, kulungile, kubi okanye ukugwema?

Ukwenqaba Kwephula Ubunikazi Beqela [Umphakathi—Izinga Lesixhenxe] Izinga leMphumelelo lesihlanu liphumelelwa yisixuku esalithwele. Ubuchule bayo bujolise njengokuhlambalaza kanti izinga libonwa njengemithwalo. Ushokhe Uguquka Ubulukhuni Ingqondo elimele ikhula ibanjwe yokuqinisekiswa. Isidingo…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
UngayekiUbomi yisipho esinikezwe nguMhlaba kwiimeko eziphilayo. Thina bantu, sibe yindlela ephucukileyo nezinzima yokuphila, sichaza ubungqina bokwenene boku exist. Ifilosofi yobomi kukuphila ngokupheleleyo—ubhekise kwiintlungu zakho, wamkele ukuba ukuphosa kunye nokuphumelela bobabini bahlala kwi…funda okungakumbi

Ubomi kunye noloyiko kuthatha indawo efanayo; akakwazi ukuhlala ndawonye ngokupheleleyo. Ngexesha elinye, xa uthethelela umthunzi, ulahla ukuthetha kokuphuma kwelanga. Ungahlali nje kwiindawo zokhuseleko lwezikhathazo zakho—khuthaza ukuthatha umhlaba oluyikile noloyiko lukuthathe. Ukuphila kukuba…funda okungakumbi

"Faka abaphulaphuli bobuKristu abaninzi abaneenkolelo ezahlukeneyo esihlalweni esinye, ubuze ukuba ngaba baphatha abantu abangenayo indlela abaphatha ngayo abanye, ngaba bayakuthanda okanye hayi, kwaye emva koko ubuze omnye ngamnye ukuba ngaba baphathwa ngabanye abaphulaphuli bobuKristu abaphambi…funda okungakumbi
E-China kwakukho indawo eyomileyo kakhulu apho banquma ukwakha iipaneli zeelanga eziyi-7 million, ezabangelwa ukuba umhlaba uvikelwe kumoya kwaye umthunzi ugcine umhlaba unomsi. Oku kwaholela ukuba utshani luqale ukukhula apho kube phezulu kangangokuba lwaluvimba iipaneli. Ngoku oonozakuzaku…funda okungakumbi


Abantu abaziwa kum kahle bayazi ukuba ndiyaziqonda kakhulu kwaye ndiyaphumelela. Ndiyaguqula iimeko zam ngokusekelwe kwiingxelo ezicacileyo nezifumanekayo. Ukuba neempazamo akukhathazi kum, ngoko ndihlala ndiphikisana nabantu abaninzi abakhathazekile ngezinye zeemeko zabo. Kum, akukhathazi ukuba…funda okungakumbi
"Andingxaki ne 'moods' zentsasa; ndingxaki nokungamkeleki kwe-IQ ephezulu kumphunga ophumayo. Ukuba ukuthula kwami kukuphoxa, kungenzeka kuba ibali lakho langaphakathi likhulu kakhulu ukuze lihambisane nokuthula kwami." — Brandon Freeman
Kwaye ndandimangaliswe kuba yena wayengumntu owandongeza kuqala. Uqale wakhankanya ngenkolo yakhe waza wandifundisa ngendlela endingenakuba ngumMuslim kunye nomfeminist ngaxeshanye? 😵 Ndiyamangaliswa kukuba kule minyaka abantu basenokwenza njalo kwabanye abantu. Ngaba kunzima kangaka ukuba abantu…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Iyi enye yeempendulo ezivamile abantu abazisebenzisayo emva kokulimaza omnye ngamagama abo. Hayibo. Uqinisekiso kunye nomonde akuzukuphikisana. Azikho kwiimeko eziphikisanayo. Zingabakhona — kwaye kufuneka — zibe khona ndawonye. Umntu angaba nomonde kwaye eqinile. Kodwa oko kudinga umonde,…funda okungakumbi

... ngumsebenzi omninzi! Abantu bahlala becinga ukuba ukuba nemizwa khona, kwaye banezinto ezithile ezivumelanayo, ke bam! Kufuneka sibe ndawonye! Abaninzi abantu abazi ukuba ubudlelwane obunempilo bufuneka ixesha kunye nomzamo. Apha yindawo apho igama elithi "ukuzinikela" libalulekile. Ukubonisa…funda okungakumbi

Ubuqili buzochitha ubudlelwane bonke. Bwenza umphakathi wakho abukele u differently, ukuthembeka kuzolahleka, ukuthembeka kuzobuzwa & uthando alusoze lube lungafani. Kodwa abantu BAKHONA basakwenza, bathi uxolo & BHALA izinto zibe zifana. Bese bephuma bephosa lowo abamthandayo ngoba imizwa yabo…funda okungakumbi
Yonke into ephilayo kule planethi ikwazile ukuhlala ngokuhambelana nobudlelwane obuhle nomhlaba wethu. Njengabantu, simele sibe yinto efanayo kodwa ehlukile...Ngokuba kukhetho esikwenza kunye nemiphumo yale misebenzi echaza ukuba yiphi amandla esivumela ukuba iphumelele...la mandla athathwa…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
Le dolophu indithathe ngqo - umphakathi opholile wokuhlanganiswa kobuchwepheshe kunye nemvelo yokuqala. Iindawo eziphakamileyo zikhupha isibhakabhaka ngelixa iindawo eziluhlaza zehlathi zixhoma ezinyaweni zazo, kwaye ii-macaques zihlala zikhululekile phakathi kwemigudu emikhulu. Kuala Lumpur…funda okungakumbi

















Uthando aluwona umuzwa kuphela, kukhetho. Abantu bahlala bephosa iphutha isikhumbuzo esinamandla sokuthandana njengokufaneleka futhi bacabanga ukuthi uma ubudlelwane bujolile ekuthandeni okukhululekile, kukhona okungahambi kahle. Akukho. Kuyisigaba sokuxhumana esiqinile. Ukuthakazelisa sekuphelile,…funda okungakumbi

Le yindawo yam emangalisayo yehalf moon, uBenedict. Unemibono emininzi ✨ kodwa usakwazi ukuhlala kunye nepagoda snail, iinzwakazi ezininzi ze-mini rabbit, inani lemini ramshorn snails, kunye nezinye ezininzi ze-mixed cherry shrimp. Ushiye abadala bodwa, kwaye ndiyabona kuphela emthatha i-shrimplets…funda okungakumbi

Intlalontle yokuzikhethela yindlela yokukhetha komphakathi phakathi kwezindlela ezahlukeneyo zokwenza ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Ukwenziwa kwangaphambili ngumqondo wokuba zonke iimeko zomlando, ezidlulileyo, ezikhoyo kunye nezizayo azinakutshintshwa ("zibekwe kwitshe").

“Ndiyakuthanda.” Hayibo. Awukuthandi. Wathanda umqondo wam. Uthando. Uthando. Indlela endakwenza ukuba uzive ubona ngaphandle kokufuna ukuba uzibone. Uze xa sisondele— ngempela sisondele— waphuma. Wavalwa. Wanyamalala ngemuva kwemihlekazi, izikhumbuzo, nomsindo owawugqoka njengemikhono. Awuzange…funda okungakumbi