Uluntu lwe-Sober
Uluntu lwe-sober, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
984 IISOULS
KONKE
sober
Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
Uluntu lwe-sober, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
984 IISOULS
KONKE
sober
Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
Iintsuku eziyi-90 ungasetyenziswanga. 🤍✨ Ndiyaziqhenya kakhulu ngendawo endiyifikeleyo kunye nendlela endiziva ngayo namhlanje. Le ndlela ayizange ibe lula, kodwa ndiyabulela kakhulu kubantu endihlangabezane nabo endleleni. Abahlobo abangasetyenziswanga endibenzileyo baye baba yinxalenye…funda okungakumbi

Kwabo babekade bephuza kwaye ngoku bengaphuzi, uthola njani uthando olungasese? Ujolise njani kuloo nto?

Ngokusemthethweni, ngaphezulu kwee-200 zeentsuku zokuzola!

Ngubani ongena mva kwi Orange County? Ndicinga ngokuqokelela iqela labantu abangaqhelekanga ukuze sibe ndawonye kwaye siqhelane.
Ngaba kukho nabani na ophuma eManitoba, eCanada. Ufuna ukuxhumana nokuchitha ixesha sobukrelekrele, ngokuqinisekileyo?
Ndibe neempazamo ezithile kwixesha elidlulileyo kodwa kusasa umhla wama-6 kuMeyi ndiza kugubha unyaka wokungasetyenziswa. Andizange ndiyenze kuphela ngenxa yam kodwa nangokubhekiselele kwabanye ukuba bahlale bephendula kwaye ngenxa yokufuna ukuba nobudlelwane obuhle nabahlobo nosapho kwakhona.
Molo. Igama lam ndinguLucio kwaye ndiyintsha apha. Ndandifuna ukwazi ukuba ngaba kukho abantu apha abaphilileyo kwaye kudlule ixesha elingakanani? Umhla wam official wokuphila nguNovemba 28, 2016. Kwaye ngelixa sikhuluma, ukuba ufumana uncedo nolwazi, ungathandabuzi. Kuzakube kukuhle kum. Hlala…funda okungakumbi
Umphakathi omnye ngexesha!


Ndiyintsha ekubekeni phantsi iimpazamo zam, kwaye ndiyazibuza ukuba ngaba kukho nabani na onokundinika iingcebiso, imibono, okanye amabali ofuna ukuwabelana nam. Enkosi! 😊
Ndingazange ndicinge ukuba ndiza kubona lo suku, kufuneka ndibe ndifile, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile, ndikhona!!! Usuku olunye ngexesha! 🎉

Ndiyaziqhenya ngendlela endihambe ngayo kwaye ndinethemba ngekamva! ✨

1 unyaka ungumntu ophilayo Namhlanje! Kube nzima ukuza lapha. Kodwa ndiyifumene.
Namhlanje kubalulekile umgubho wam weminyaka emibini yokuhlala ndingenasoda. Le yindawo yam yesibini neyokugqibela yokunqoba le ngxaki. Ndiyazi ukuba ngexesha elilandelayo ndingangaphumi ndiphilile! Ndihlale ndiyisebenzisa njengendlela yokujolisa kwiingxaki zempilo, kodwa la maxesha aphelile.…funda okungakumbi
Ngokuqinisekileyo umboniso omangalisayo izolo! 🤘🥳🔥🎶 #sueco #music #sober #moshpits #rock
Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyalibala ukuba zingaphi iintsuku ezidlulileyo ukusukela ekuphuzeni kwam kokugqibela. Ndinekhumbuzo efowuni yam yokuyijonga kodwa kufuneka ndivume ukuba ndihlala ndicofa "mark completed" ndiphumelele. Namhlanje, ndinama-71 iintsuku ngaphandle kotywala. Ndiyagubha yonke imini…funda okungakumbi


Ukuba ndingakwenza, nabani na angakwenza! Ndadlula emlilweni ukufika kule ndawo kwaye kube yimpikiswano yeeyure. Ngokuphilayo ndiyakwazi ukuba ngumdali, umhlobo, kunye noyise endiyazi ukuba ndingaba nguquka! Ndiyabulela kumandla amaphakade kunye nabo bonke abandixhasileyo de kube ngoku. Kulowo…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Kwaye ndiyaphucuka ngakumbi!

Uqhubeka uqina

Ndiza kuqhubeka nokuqhubeka naphi na 🐼( ilungisiwe)

Namhlanje kubalulekile iintsuku ezingama-60. Akukho umgubo akukho zinto ezonakalayo akukho utshwala.. ndiyaziva kulungile, ndiyaziva kulungile!!!😁
Ndikhona kuba ndandineengxaki (past tense) zokuphuza kakhulu kwaye almost yandichaphazela ubomi bam. Okwangoku ndinamahla angama-11 e-sobriety emzimbeni wam kwaye ndibhalisile kwi-counseling yokusebenzisa iziyobisi (iqala ngoMgqibelo 3/27). Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyafuna umhlobo o-sober okanye nje…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
Ndifumene umsebenzi ophuma kwi 6 figures kwaye ndingazange ndikwazi ukukwenza ukuba ndingasondeli! 3/13/2018
#ukuphola( ilungisiwe)

Molo nonke, ndijolise kwiimixholo zonke esinokuthi sibhale ngazo apha kwaye ndafumanisa ukungasese. Ndihlala ndingenamathontsi kwiwayini kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezinto ukusukela ngomhla we-18/09/2011... ngexesha le-10:00am ukuba sikhumbula. Ndiyazibuza ukuba ngaba kukho nabani na ophuma kwiimeko…funda okungakumbi
Izolo bekuyiinyanga ezi-3 ngaphandle kokuba ndisiphe okanye ndibe nekhaya le-alcohol. Ndiyaziva ukuba ngengqondo ndiyaphucuka kwaye ndiyaphuka kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kulula ukulawula iimpawu ngoku kwaye andisazithandi kwaye ndingaguli ngexesha lonke. Ndizama ukufunda ukuzithanda ngaphandle kokuba…funda okungakumbi
Ndibe neentsuku ezilungileyo nezingalunganga kodwa bekufaneleka uhambo. Ubomi bungenza kube ngcono xa uhlala ngempela!

Ndikhethe ukususwa konke okungasasebenzi kum. Yintoni eminye yeemeko zakho, imingeni, kunye neempumelelo zokuphila ubomi obungenabutywala!?
Molo, andikaze ndibe ngumqolo, kodwa ndinomdla wokuba kutheni abantu bekhetha ubomi obungumqolo, ungandixelela ukuba kutheni ukhethe ukungumqolo?( ilungisiwe)
Iiposti Ezinxulumeneyo
Hey yall, ndibe ndisuka ndisiya kwi-app ixesha elide kwaye ngoku ndifuna abahlobo abaninzi okanye mhlawumbi ngakumbi ukuba kulungile? Ndikwi sikhumbuzo sam sokuphola kwaye ndingathanda ukudibana nabantu okanye noluntu olunokuthi lube kwiindawo ezifanayo!

Kube neminyaka emibini ndingenasoda, kodwa ndaphuka izolo.... Ndadlala.... Umgwaqo wemfazwe..... Kutheni ndizonda kangaka? Kuyabonakala ukuba andikadlalanga, ndiziva ngathi ndijolise kumdadewethu edlala😭 Ndiza kukhuphula le namba ye-nuke ngakumbi tho 👍
Ndiya kuba ngumntu ongakhe.

Namhlanje kubalulekile iinyanga eziyi-9 zokungasetyenziswa, le yindawo ende endihlala kuyo ngaphandle kokusebenzisa kwiinyanga eziyi-8.
Iminyaka esixhenxe ingasela isakhumbula le boulder. Iminyaka esixhenxe inkulu ngale devil ephezu komqolo wam. Unyaka nonyaka ndiyalwela njengomkhosi. Usuku lonke ndizama ukuba namandla. Iminyaka esixhenxe nemiyalezo yakhe emlonyeni wam. Iminyaka esixhenxe ethi izinto endingathanda ukuziva. Unyaka…funda okungakumbi
Iwayini okanye ungaphumli?
Fihliweyo kuba xa i-biology ilwa nokuthula kwangaphakathi, ukuhlala ndedwa kuyandithanda. Ubomi obungenanto bukhethwe phezu kweengxoxo ezingenanto, ukuthula phezu kwexesha elinye lokuphazamiseka. Igazi lisahamba kwaye umnqweno usaqhubeka, kodwa ukungonwabi kuphakama kuphela emva kokudibana…funda okungakumbi
Usuku lokuzalwa namhlanje. Ndikhathazekile ekhaya. Ndiphilile. Ifowuni iyomileyo. Ndikhaliphile 😒

Ndilindele ixesha lam Ndiyeke ukusebenzisa zonke iindlela zam Kudala kakhulu Andinakuba soba andilunganga Ndiphendule ububi bami Kodwa ndingayazi njani? Andinakuba nemincili Andinakuziva ubuhlungu Andinakukhumbula Uphunga lwakho emithanjeni yam Ndiva umphunga wam kodwa andikaze…funda okungakumbi
Iminyaka emithathu ingenabuthi. Oku kuyasondela kum ukuba ndikwazi ukuvuma ukuba le yindawo ende yokungabuthi ebomini bam bonke 🚫
Liyamangalisa lemini (Liyamangalisa lemini) Ndicinga ukuba ndifumene mna Ngomso andifuni ukuba ndisobala (Ndisobala) Yenza umxube, konke kuphelile [Chorus] Phula Phula Le yindaba eqhelekileyo kum. Thatha Thatha Phosa konke, njengoko ungumntu otyhafileyo ( 💜jimin 💜)
Njengomntu onempilo, andihlangani nabantu abaphuza, abashumi kunye nazo zonke ezi zinto. Asihambelani. Andinabo ububele kubantu abaphuzileyo. Andifuni ukugcina nabani na. Kubuhlungu ukuba ndiyindoda kuphela engaphuzwanga. Uya kubizwa ngokuba ungenamsebenzi ngenxa yokungafuni ukuphosa. Imida yakho…funda okungakumbi
Ndifumene kude kakhulu ngale ngoma, ndifuna nje ukusebenzela utshintsho lombhoxo.
Ewe, ukuphila kwi sober living kunokubangela umphakathi omkhulu nabantu abangama-20 endlwini enye kodwa le ndlu yangasemva, :) ikhululekile kakhulu


Uxinzelelo lukhula, umkhukula onzima, opholileyo, Ngezandi ezininzi, kwaye akukho ndawo yokufihla. Phakathi kokudana endikuthwele kunye nothando endiphosela, Umoya wam uyakhatshwa, ibhatteri yam ifuna ngakumbi. Ukuba ndihamba kude, ngaphakathi kokuthula nokumnyama, Ungandibuzi ngamazwi andingenayo…funda okungakumbi
Ndibe ngumsindisi ngoku ngaphezulu kweminyaka eyi-9. Xa ndixelela abafazi oku, bahlala bephosa umnqweno. Bakholwa ukuba abayikwazi ukuphuza endaweni yam, nangona ndibaxelela ukuba andinankathalo. Emva koko, bayanyamalala kum. Ndicinga ukuba ukungakhathali kwabo kulungile kumgangatho othile xa…funda okungakumbi
Ndandihamba nje ngebhasi emhlabeni wam ukuze ndiyenzele umnqweno :) hayi kuba ndifanele ukuya naphi, kuphela ngenxa yokuba. Ndandihamba phantsi kweentlobo zomthi ndihleka yonke indlela ngentlonipho engapheliyo....:) Yintoni emnandi yokuphumelela ukungaziphosa, ukuba ukwazi ukujolisa kwiinto ezilula…funda okungakumbi
Ngaba ubani uze azame ukudansa ungaphumli kwi nightclub?
Ndibe ngaphezulu kweminyaka emithathu ndingasondeli!

Andingakholwa ukuba namhlanje kumalunga nonyaka omnye ndingasetyenziswanga iwayini, andinakukwazi ukuzigqaja ngakumbi kum, ndiphumelele kwi jaundice pancreatitis acidosis dts psychosis, ndiphumelele. Ndandikwi ngxaki enkulu ngexesha elithile, ndivuka kwiibhenji zephakheji ndiphosa i-24 yeebhanti…funda okungakumbi
Ngezinye ixesha ndiyazibuza ukuba ingaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ndifumane omnye umntu xa ndicinga ukuba zingaphi iimpazamo endizenzileyo nokuba ndiphumelele kangakanani kwiiminyaka ezidlulileyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, andikenzanga nto enobubi obungafanelekanga: andikaze ndiphose omnye umntu, andikaze…funda okungakumbi
Kwaba ngu-2 ekuseni, kwaye umzi wawubonakala uphupha kancinci kunangoku. Ndahlala phantsi kwefasitela elikhulu elingaphezulu komhlaba kwi-2nd floor ye-brewery ethuleyo, ingilazi ye-wayini engaphelanga ibekwe phakathi kwezandla zam. Kwiindawo ezithile ngasemva kwam, i-jazz saxophone yanyamalala…funda okungakumbi
Ngaba kukho abantu abaninzi apha? 👑

wonke umyalezo owuthethayo ophuma emlonyeni wakho kufuneka ube ngokuhambelana nenhliziyo yakho. ukuba uthetha kakhulu kwaye akuhambelani nenhliziyo yakho. kufana ne-apile ebukekayo, ekhanyayo ngaphandle kwaye ibhujiswe ngaphakathi, kungcono ukuhlabela ngokucacileyo kwaye akuyi kuba nabantu abaziva…funda okungakumbi
3 imihla elandelanayo yephupha elihle endaweni yeentloni zobusuku zansuku zonke. Ezinye iintsuku andiphuphe kwaye ke ndiyahamba imihla emibini ngaphandle kwentloni yobusuku. Kodwa ndingabala ngezandla ezimbini iimeko endiphuphile kwaye ndinephupha elihle. Emva kweminyaka engama-34 yokuhlala…funda okungakumbi
Ngoko, kube nzima kancinci kunoko ndacinga, ndiyavuma. Kodwa kwelinye icala ndiyifumene ukuba ngubani othembekile kum, owenza imizamo yokundinceda ngezinto ezingezizo i-alcohol :)
2 Korinte 5:18 "Futhi konke lokhu kuyisipho sikaThixo, osibuyisile kuye ngokusebenzisa uKristu. Futhi uThixo usinike le msebenzi wokubuyisela abantu kuye." Incazelo ye-2 Korinte 5:18 igxile emsebenzini wokubuyisela uThixo ngokusebenzisa uKristu. UPawulu uchaza ukuthi konke lokhu kuvela kuThixo,…funda okungakumbi
Jonga abantu abaninzi eMaine!
Xa ndandiyindoda yeendlela. Ndandinem girls zonke kum. Ngoku ndiphilile, ndikhokhela irhafu, ndinobomi bam, umsebenzi olungileyo, ndihlambuluke kwaye ndiyaphila.. Ndibe neengxaki ezininzi zokuqhawula "kubuhlungu ukudibana nam. Kuba andibafuni." UHOWU LO KULUNGILE.. kuhleka kakhulu. Ndikulungele…funda okungakumbi
Uphumelele umgca. Ukwenza okulungileyo kum, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka okanye ukuhamba phantsi kwabanye abakwi ndawo. Akukabikho lula, kodwa ndiyithokozile le nto ndiyihambileyo. I-caffeine encinci kwaye akukho mveliso ethambileyo kwi-nyanga efanayo. Uphumelele kwi gym ngaphezulu kwaye ndibe…funda okungakumbi



Ngomhla walo mhla ngo-2002, uP!NK obhale kwaye uphumelele ingoma yeqonga yeThe Ellen Degeneres Show (Namhlanje Ngumhla), uvele kwi epizodhi yokugqibela, apho wacula uWhat About Us, ngokucela kukaEllen. Ngomhla wesixhenxe we-170 wonyaka wesine wokudansa, ndadansa kuP!NK'S What About Us, kunye…funda okungakumbi
Ngakho angikaze ngibe nephotogenic njengangaphambili, izinto zikhona ezingeni elihlukile kimi manje. Ngivame ukusho kakhulu ngezinye izikhathi, ikakhulukazi lapha lapho sizama ukuheha...futhi ngemuva kwalokho ngiyashiywa ngingekho haha. Kodwa kulungile, ngempela ngiyazama kahle futhi angilindele…funda okungakumbi

Ngaphandle kweminyaka engaphezu kwama-30 yokuhlupheka, ekugqibeleni ndifike ekukhanyeni ekupheleni komgama wam. Ndine mhlobo omhle kakhulu kwaye ndingumakhulu kumntwana omncinci, onobubele, onobuchule oneminyaka eyi-8 endake ndamfumana. Abantu bandonwabisayo abaphumelelanga ekugqibeleni kuba…funda okungakumbi

