I really liked a guy🥲 I texted him. I just wanted to be friends, not flirt. He didn't seem to mind. He wrote that he likes real, long conversations over a cup of coffee, and he doesn't like people texting every 4 hours. I thought: oh, cool, a normal person 💕 But, uh. a day goes by, another day goes by, he's online all the time. It's like 24/7. But he responds every few hours. It's weird, right? I gently write to him, saying, "You seem to be online all the time, but you don't respond very often. No offense, but I just don't get it. And he was like, "I think you're being disrespectful." So I'm being disrespectful. Really? 😱😳 Anyway, he blocked me. That's a great way to get out of a chat room. No explanation, no coffee ☹️ So, long story short: texted first → tried to chat → blocked. The end 🐾

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I wouldn't worry about it it's a kinda give and take with ppl online. You win some you lose a few hundred. Honestly probably dodged a bullet.

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It's good you established your intentions up front. In my experiences, if a woman matches or creates a connection with me and conversation is kept on a friendly level only then I'm led to believe it'll ever only be platonic. And if they later on try to shift that role or create expectations differing from friendship, then it leads me to believe they're playing emotional games with me, as that's been the experience every time for me with these kinds of situations. I believe that's likely primarily true for many other men as well in their experiences. Maybe a better approach would be to state that you like them and think they have bf potential with you but you'd like to keep the flirting to a minimum and not let it get hot and heavy yet. Unless I misunderstood the context about this situation.

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From how i see it, it’s simply not mutual and reciprocal from him as much as yours..and yeah it sū c ks when it happens especially, you fancy them 🙄 Oh well, it’s his lost rather than yours and i know its hard to think that way, but you gotta to. 😄 Just my two cents.

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Prob immature and playing mind games. NEXT!...life goes on.

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Don't worry,he doesn't deserve even to be ur friendship or he might be busy with other texts! (edited)

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Happens to me alot but normally after they ask me to go to another platform immediately. Idk I enjoy talking to people but feel like I'm boring

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I don't know it's a tough one.. you said friendship and he said "he doesn't like texting people every 4 hours", yet he replied to you within a few hours, even if he was more active on the platform it still seems like he took enough time in the day to connect. Not to sure what more you would have wanted from a friend? I don't speak to any of my matches here daily. Most of us just speak in the universes more and we only occasionally have chats in the inbox and sometimes we will go a few hours even days without replying but we've established from the get go it would be the case. Especially when conversations can get deep you want to take enough time to respond and be considerate to each person and the feelings and not feel like it's your job or duty to reply, constantly. Now if a friend is going through something then we will prioritise them and speak to them first to help them through whatever they're feeling/experiencing. It doesn't mean we care any less about other matches and friends, it just means that we're trying to be considerate of everyone. I wouldn't have expected him to message me daily and I'm more than happy to speak to my friends once or twice a week. It's not like we owe each other anything and it's not a romantic relationship and even then I may not expect daily texts. Being online and interacting with meaningless posts is different than having deeper conversations that can be emotionally taxing. So people like to balance in between the two.

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I wouldn't worry about it it's a kinda give and take with ppl online. You win some you lose a few hundred. Honestly probably dodged a bullet.

From how i see it, it’s simply not mutual and reciprocal from him as much as yours..and yeah it sū c ks when it happens especially, you fancy them 🙄 Oh well, it’s his lost rather than yours and i know its hard to think that way, but you gotta to. 😄 Just my two cents.

Prob immature and playing mind games. NEXT!...life goes on.

Don't worry,he doesn't deserve even to be ur friendship or he might be busy with other texts! (edited)

Happens to me alot but normally after they ask me to go to another platform immediately. Idk I enjoy talking to people but feel like I'm boring

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