If you want to achieve higher AWARENESS then you have to get used to holding 2 contradictory beliefs simultaneously... For example: If you want to be successful then you must have a dream, fight for your dream. (first belief) If you want to be happy then let go of all desires, accept whatever is in front of you. (second belief) The first and second beliefs are very contradictory. If you want to be successful have a desire and work on your dreams If you want to be happy let go of desires. The problem is who doesn't want to be successful and happy at the same time? It takes higher awareness to digest and be able to grasp these two opposing beliefs simultaneously. The inability to digest will tend to make us extreme left or extreme right... Because of confusion and unaccustomed to thinking duality, people will usually choose There are people whose lives are inclined only to pursue success or there are those who only pursue happiness. Finally what happens is that many people are successful but unhappy. Some are happy but their lives are ordinary, nothing has changed, walking in place. People who are extreme in their pursuit of success. Will work so hard Elbow here and there Stress Lack of rest Lack of time Fatigue Relationship with family is not good etc. That's why many successful people are unhappy and end their lives Many successful people are also sick. Now this successful person will see the extreme happy person as lazy, unwilling to progress, uneducated etc. People who are extreme in happiness will live a flat life. No progress No desire No dream And usually this person will just surrender his life and not want to fight. He will accuse people who are extreme in pursuing success as people who do not know gratitude, too chasing the world etc. Usually they will live in poverty. Then how to be successful and happy? Have a desire/dream. Take care of your dreams like you take care of your children. But when your dream makes you stressed, exhausted, stop for a moment, do total acceptance, be grateful for everything you have right now, and let go of attachment. This way you live in BALANCE... Or you can imagine a car. To pursue success is to step on the gas To be happy is to step on the brakes. Have the wisdom of when you should gas when you should brake. Gas and brake are also opposites, but complement each other. 📍🇮🇩 Jakarta, Indonesia

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