Is this really a red flag? Why? I don't see clingy being automatically toxic. In fact, I wouldn't mind texts through the day checking on me, asking if I ate, reminding me to drive safe, asking if I got somewhere safely. She wants to be passenger princess? She gets auto shotgun any time I drive. Let's get you that Starbys drink you like. Hold your hand while I drive. She sees me gaming with my buddies and wants to sit next to me? I'm going to let her. She wants to say hi? My buddies better be respectful. She wants to go with me shopping? I'd rather have company anyway.

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You are a sweet person. But I believe that you'd only enjoy clinginess if you like the person, otherwise, you will get irritated for sure. I am clingy to the person I reaaaaally like but I know when to stop and when to give that person their space.

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Oh, this just made me realize that my last relationship was with a clingy man and I’m expecting that from people who are interested in me now… no wonder I was thinking none of the people I have talked with so far were that into me… but they are just normal, healthier people. I need to reassess my expectations! I love it when I can learn something about myself by reading others posts! Thanks! ╰(´︶`)╯♡

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Depends on clingyness level. And yours sounds pretty clingy but not overbearing so far. Hopefully you'll find your queen soon👌👍

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Well, as a clingy person, I can also acknowledge that clinginess has its time and place. If I was clingy all the time, I can't imagine that people would want to be around me much. But if I pick and choose when to be clingy (easier said than done, I know), it's probably not so bad. But then, I've never really had an actual relationship, so maybe I just THINK I'm clingy, but I'm not. 😂 (I'd love to have a somewhat clingy partner though).

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Usually people use clingy to describe someone who has passed into obsessive territory. Always has to be with you to the point of you not being able to do the stuff you love, for instance.

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She's with you at the supermarket " No you don't need it "

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I don't think it's toxic either I call it dedication

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Ok I understand you in a way but hope this pic guide you.. only suggesting this can happen. (I try to make it PG-13 for you n all)

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No one has said that

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I don't think you understand what clingy is. Clingy is when she's pissed that you didn't text back immediately. When she is mad you made plans that don't include her. When they want your life to include them entirely and vice versa.

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thats adorable

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Too bad there are not more guys like that. However, if your playing why not ask if she would like to join. I like gaming lol. Anyways. I would do that and more for the guy I am with but doesn't make me clingy just makes it a relationship. Thanks for sharing

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Having a partner you can spend an excess of time with can be great. The issue is when you or the other person is dependent on clinginess to feel secure, happy, etc

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Clinginess is a stone throw away from co dependancy.

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Based on my experiences. Clingy women are red flags.

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