Exotic Eyez

Posted Monday, May 29, 2023

11mo

ESFP

Aries

I am growing exceedingly weary of hearing the same complaints from men about marriage and divorce, particularly in regards to a woman "taking half" of the man's possessions in a divorce...

I will agree that sometimes divorce court isn't fair to men, however, my annoyance is with the fact that men grow disdain towards women and it's unwarranted because they fail to realize that the divorce court laws were CREATED BY MEN--NOT WOMEN! 🤨 So ask yourselves WHY did men create laws that put OTHER men at such a disadvantage?? Having animosity towards women over the court laws that men created is misplaced anger. Additionally, let's not pretend like ALL of these divorces fall out of the sky. 🤷‍♀️ I have long term and short term dating experiences with men, along with interacting with them in social, work, public settings , as well as online, and I can say wholeheartedly that women are not 100% to blame. Yes, there are vindictive women with bad characters, but I do not think these women represent the majority of women filing for divorce. Based on all of my experiences with men, especially in relationships, I've witnessed a number of negative behaviors that would result in a relationship disintegrating. Instead of men actively working to fix these negative behaviors, they instead blame women for finally getting fed up with it and leaving them. Men are quick to point to the Bible verse that says women should be "submissive" to their husbands, "but totally gloss over the very next verses that say: "Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES, even as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for it....So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church...." Perhaps if more men followed this Biblical advice, there wouldn't be so many women filing for divorce. This post wasn't created to offend or villanize men and make women sound like angels with no flaws. Women have plenty of bad character flaws they need to work on, too. But this post isn't about women's flaws, it's about men complaining about women taking half of their belongings in a divorce. I hear far more men complaining about a divorce than women, and it's almost always for the same reasons.