I've gotten a chance to deeply know someone, to where I thought I finally found one. But The moment I said I don't want any children , she immediately stops taking to me (edited)

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Martha

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I'd start at the beginning. You save yourself the trouble and disappointment

Jose 📸

7mo

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Capricorn

To be honest (if you are talking about telling that on people you match in this app), it should be something you should add to your profile. There is an option that allows you to show you dont want kids. Most dating apps have something similar too. It is better if you select that, because alot of people feel strongly about that choice. And if they want kids, and you dont want kids, thats definitely a dealbreaker for the other person, and for you. So, in the end, you guys are just waisting time because you will undoubtedly hit that wall. Family plans is a dealbreaker for everyone, unless they select open to children, otherwise, you can definitely infer they selecting having children or not having children is a constant that will never change (even if in the future it changes out of no where). (edited)

Kai

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ESTJ

Capricorn

I've been in the same boat. It's hard dating as a Christian girl who doesn't want children. Christian men want families and half the time big families. My brother and I were debating about this. I think you should bring it up pretty early to avoid wasting anybody's time. He thinks you should get to know each other well first because someone can change their mind once they get to know the other. I still say don't risk wasting your time. People are usually pretty passionate about that lifestyle. Bring it up on the first date. It can be cringe. You gotta be smooth. Best~

Liz

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Leo

Upfront thats a huge deal breaker for those that want kids.

Oaklen

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Libra

If you tell them in the beginning, you're able to know then how they feel about that and whether they're right for you. You don't want to have that talk months after you meet them, that'll be more awkward.

Kory

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INFP

Pisces

Up front alwaaaaays dude, better to go thru the dealbreakers now versus wait and hope one of you changes your minds later

Connor

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Aries

The best thing to do is be 100% honest about everything straight up front. If y'all have an idea that is very much conflicting with one another, don't be afraid to talk about it. If you're afraid to talk about the minor things now, you'll be afraid to talk about major things later

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