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Posted Thursday, October 12, 2023
1y
INFJ
Aries
Is Love Worth the Risk?
Just curious to hear your guy's thoughts. I'm sure people on this app have experienced heartbreak whether due to being in a relationship or due to rejection. So is love worth pursuing despite that risk of pain and heartbreak?
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Sarah
1y
ISTJ
Gemini
Like the consensus: ABSOLUTELY! COMPLETELY! ALWAYS! You learn so many things when you're in a relationship; about yourself and about other people. You (should) learn many more if the relationship ends in failure. But, when you have an amazing connection with someone, nothing beats that feeling - and nothing lasts forever. Even if you manage to be able to spend it until death actually does you apart, you never know when that will be. People assume it means 60-90+ years from when they get together, but your partner could get into a car accident on the way to work and suddenly you're alone. Man.. I totally went dark 😅😅 but still, no matter what pain you might experience from a relationship, it is all so much better to go thru than to be miserable and alone your whole life. If you're not feeling miserable while you're alone, then congratulations! I am happy for you, but you're still missing out on the pure bliss having a good partner can bring, but it is a struggle to find the Right partner, not just a good one. (edited)
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Anthony
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INFJ
Taurus
Well, what's the alternative? To not love or be loved? That's infinite worse compared, willingly deciding to be responsible for that person one holds dear perhaps because they're consider or always be family worth pursuing.
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