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Posted Saturday, April 16, 2022
2y
ISFP
Taurus
Finding friends
I wish it wasn't so hard to find friends that live in the same state or at least online friends would be nice. Imma be honest I cut a lot of people out. But the friendship wasn't healthy or built on a stable bond so I ended things. Nowadays it seems almost impossible to put effort or trust into new people. Too little effort and they leave, too much effort and it ends up just being me putting in any effort. Trusting that people won't hurt me, trusting that they have pure intentions. It's scary to meet men because of this because I have a hard time with boundaries or at least keeping them up when they try to pull them down. It's really frustrating not being able to make new friends because I was friends with the wrong people. I'm at a point in my life where I could really use the socializing and friendships but it's just so hard..
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2y
ENFJ
Sagittarius
perhaps try finding people with similar hobbies like yourself, the only reason im still close with high school friends is because we still games together online, and ive made friends by meeting talking to other motorcyclists on the road and theyre like my closest friends now
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ENTJ
Libra
People come and go. That’s just the nature of things. I wouldn’t say “do not be sad” because it is sad, but they came because they’re meant to give you a valuable lesson at one point in time. Just wait and be open for the possibilities. The right people will come and stay in your life.
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INFP
Gemini
Honestly, you have summarized how people have become. Everyone wants to be your friend but no one wamts to be the one to actually put in the effort cause everyone has hurt everyone or done something. It's built up a barrier bewteen people and its hard to break ot down. However, you'll find a person or two, whom you will be able to call friends in time. Just dont fullt give up on people
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