Chris

1mo

INTJ
Leo

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Single

I've been single for almost a year now and it's starting to get a bit depressing. I think I'm too worried about upsetting people to really be aggressive enough to find a date. Does anyone else have this problem?

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Jewell

1mo

ISTP
Scorpio

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I've been single for almost 2 months now. I'm no longer desperate or needy to find love. I'm busy focusing on myself first so that someone can see me for what I know I'm worth and how to love me for me and treat me better.

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Chris

1mo

INTJ
Leo

2w1

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That's definitely a good approach. I think part of my issue right now is that I'm struggling to advance my life and myself in other areas so having companionship would help give me the energy to keep plugging away, and I don't have that now.

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Amanda

1mo

ISTJ
Taurus

Try 5 years lol. You'll be fine

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Chris

1mo

INTJ
Leo

2w1

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5 years? Have you been single for that long? I don't think I could handle that again, I already dealt with that in high school lol

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Amanda

1mo

ISTJ
Taurus

@Chris sure have. I don't even mind it

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Chris

1mo

INTJ
Leo

2w1

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@Amanda Wow, that sounds incredible, honestly. I like to think I'm happy enough with myself that I don't need a relationship, I just prefer to be in one over being single. But it sounds like your own self-confidence is on a completely different level than my own. I'm kind of jealous lol

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Amanda

1mo

ISTJ
Taurus

@Chris I mean yeah I would like to be in a relationship with someone and to be loved, and have someone to do stuff with and spend life together, but I don't get my hopes up on it.

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Chris

1mo

INTJ
Leo

2w1

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@Amanda Do you do anything to try and make that happen? Aside from this app, of course. I don't really know how to go about jumping into the dating scene myself tbqh. My last couple partners I happened to meet online, I was just lucky.

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Amanda

1mo

ISTJ
Taurus

@Chris Nope, nothing specific. I just have this and a couple other dating apps. Then talking to people here and there just kinda looking around to see if I connect with anybody. I feel like it's all about timing or there's just no timing at all, bc some people just aren't that lucky...myself included.

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Macky

1mo

INTP
Leo

3w4

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Hey I'm single almost 31 years it's depends on you how you take just accept everything and enjoy your own me time with a glass beer

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Chris

1mo

INTJ
Leo

2w1

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Yeah, I guess I just got used to being able to share my time with someone special and now things are so quiet.

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