Michael

Posted Sunday, April 28, 2024

15d

ENFP

Cancer

Let me try...

One more time. At any given point we all live on a spectrum. That spectrum is love and fear. We don't like to admit it but the vast majority of us are stuck in fear. The only way out of it is, of course, love. Fear creates this wall. A seemingly unbreakable impenetrable wall that keeps us stuck in fear. Now some will argue that they aren't stuck in fear and my reply is this. Then why can't you get a date? What's stopping you? Ah. See? Fear. The fears we suffer from are innumerable. Rejection I think being the worst. That's what it is though. If you weren't afraid you'd get off an app, which makes a great excuse not to find someone btw, and go find your soulmate. So fear has you imprisoned in this cold dark place and right about now you're thinking if I can't find the love I need to break through this wall of fear, what the f--- do I do? Good question. The right question. The answer of course is inside of you. Always has been. Always will be. You learn to love yourself first. Now I'm not talking about conceit and you can't just instantly love yourself anymore than you can just instantly love someone else, and if you already did love yourself, you wouldn't need advice. The answer is again, BECOME someone you can love. Question. Can you love a coward? I can't. I couldn't. And guess what being afraid and being stuck in fear makes you? I wont say it but you already know. At this point you have two choices. Stay in the prison of your fear and stare longingly at those who aren't afraid, or swallow your fear and take action. It's magic. You don't just blow through your wall of fear. You are instantly transported to the other side where you realize that wall was just an illusion anyway. The next time you find a match. Don't get scared and Ghost them. Be brave and push forward. And look. It doesn't matter if that works out or not. You will have been brave and suddenly you will see yourself with new eyes and then you will suddenly have feelings for you. That's the answer. If you really want to go balls out, go to a bar or a club or anywhere there are people and be brave. You see love is the province of the brave, and as always my friends, love is, and always will be, the answer.