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Posted Tuesday, January 21, 2025
4mo
INFJ
Taurus
1 Award
Confession
If I scroll through someone’s profile and see their MBTI has a “T” in it, I immediately swipe left. I’ve just had the worst experiences with “T” people that I’ve almost gotten pTsd from it (see what I did there? 🫢) Jokes apart, I’m sure it differs from person to person, but the ones I’ve encountered have been super emotionally unavailable and have had a lack of ability to see things from someone else’s pov. Thoughts? 🤔
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Ash 🐶🐱🐹🐴🐝🐢🐫🦜🐮🐑🐓
4mo
ISTJ
Capricorn
Interesting perspective. It's very easy to generalise based on our experiences, kinda like an estimated guess that is hard to prove. I have a similar thing with extraverts and judgement E and J, although I wouldn't swipe on them I'm more in the 'curious to see more' stage. Whether there is something to it (a likely pattern) or not it's not something u can really be sure of that it means something in particular 100percent without a lot of testing, but it would be helpful if there were patterns to it that could be used to reduce risk of wasting time and getting hurt. We also have to consider combinations, as I myself have a J in my personality type, and I am not about to lie, cheat, make rumours, manipulate or hurt anyone so J alone means very little on its own. It might be similar with T and E and so on. Any other combo of letters that were involved in all these peoples personalities? The ones who u got a kind of Ptsd around? (edited)
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Jaime
4mo
ISTJ
Gemini
I mean you already said it though. I do think it's different from person to person. So much to experience from other people's pov. The search continues though no point in stopping now or ever 🥺🙌🏼🙏🏼🤗.
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Ash 🐶🐱🐹🐴🐝🐢🐫🦜🐮🐑🐓
4mo
ISTJ
Capricorn
Found this, could be helpful. Not the pictures just for seeing what each letter means. When I see the J being reflective of actual judgement I second guess the meme, because I feel it probably has more to do with intellect or logic than actual accusing blaming or anything like that, and if one isn't using intellect well I am not sure if they're ability to figure things out would be the same or better for that matter like the meme suggests (edited)
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Dandan; Not Not Dan.. The Real Dan. What is a Dan?
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INTJ
Capricorn
We're pretty awful people
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Mademoiselle Amy
4mo
INFJ
Aries
This coming from infj’s is totally understandable. Ironically i have a good connection with the “T” 🤭i can’t really explain why, but both are way different.
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