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Universes
Posted Sunday, October 15, 2023
1y
ENTP
Capricorn
Is it selfish to put yourself first? I heard this sentence in a movie ‘ tyag hi jeevan ka dhram hai ‘ I asked my granddad what does it means he said it means the god has created us humans so to help others , if you ever have to sacrifice your own peace and happiness for someone you love you should do that cause that’s what dharm is. For my whole life till now I have believed what my granddad said, I have tried to always live for others. Now the question is…. Is the answer true for the current world or society we live in or is it just true evrytime? If you ask me no it’s not, it is never worth it. You should always keep your peace… your wishes …your happiness first. For few out there it’s easy to understand but there are many of us who ends up sacrificing our everything for the people who don’t even deserve it. But why, why do they do that? The answer is simple because their hearts are pure and are filled with nothing but love for everyone they care about. Whether it’s their family or partner or some colleague or whoever is it, they love them so much that won’t think twice to make them happy on the cost of their own god damn happiness….but even after doing so much for others they still ends up being alone and hurt. Most of the times they themselves are accused of being the root of problems in everyone’s life. Why this does happens to these good people? It’s because in all this chaos of taking care of others they forget that they themselves are humans too and just like others they have their own wishes, their own dreams , their own feelings and like all other they need love too…they need care too….they need hugs too…they need to feel free too….they need to sometimes have fun too…they need to sometimes choose themselves too. Whenever you make a sacrifice for someone ask yourself are you also happy to see that someone happy? If the answer is no then stop right there and then ….choose yourself. When you do too much for a wrong person he starts taking you for granted. And no matter how much you do, if not today not tomorrow then someday you are going to be accused of being the wrong one. So stop and start choosing yourself….be selfish if its for your own peace.
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