So I'm back on dating apps and sure I don't know how to talk to women yet but we'll cross that bridge when we get there lol! I was wondering if y'all could have a quick looky over my profile and let me know if I'm doing something wrong or dumb bc it's me and that's usually the case

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Jacqueline

ENFJ

Scorpio

It looks good. You've got a few of your interests listed which is great for starting a conversation and a lot of pictures. Mine is a ginormous essay so don't look to me for examples...😁

victoria

INFP

Gemini

well i cant really say much since I'm in the same spot 🤣 but That looks good(?

Courtney

INFP

Capricorn

Your profile has my attention 🫠

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Vinay Krishna

14h

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Libra

A heart that's numbing, a soul that's worn, I've buried the pain, and the tears that are born. I say nothing, I feel nothing, it's true, For in silence, I've found a way to see this through.

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

We try to hide in silence, to escape the heart's despair, But pain is a persistent guest, that's always lurking there. It seeps into our quiet nights, and whispers every day, A constant reminder of the hurt, that refuses to fade away.

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Vinay Krishna

11h

INFJ

Libra

Two faces of sorrow, a tale of pain, One hides behind a smile, a lips' disguise in vain. The other reveals the truth, in eyes that dimly shine, A window to the heart, where depression's darkness entwine.

#randomthoughts

Koffy

ENFJ

Sagittarius

4 Awards

GIVING YOURSELF CREDIT REDARDLESS OF ANYTHING... 😍🥰🫰🫶🌻🌈💖✨️

Sometimes, we think we need to be better to feel whole, but what we really need is a little kindness starting with ourselves. There will be many things in life that you won't have control over. They will cripple you, hurt you, break you into pieces but they will also build your character,... read more

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Ankit

ENFJ

Gemini

Initiate a conversation but never force it

#enlightenment

Koffy

ENFJ

Sagittarius

7 Awards

HONORING YOUR WORTHINESS...🥰😉💖✨️🌻🌈🫶🫰

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S the Nosy Aunt 🦝✨️

15d

ISFP

3 Awards

Personal opinion about Soul's posts

I understand that posting is one of the way to connect with people here, however I have to address few patterns here: 1) Combining too many questions into one post. This may keep away others from responding due to requiring so much mental energy to craft their response. So unless you already... read more

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SuSu

INFJ

Sagittarius

2 Awards

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#advice #thoughts #thinking (edited)

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

I once wondered why hearts burn with fiery rage Why love can turn to anger, and a soul's dark cage But now I understand, for I've walked that same flame And felt the fury that fuels, the heart's deepest pain

#boo

Miguel

24d

INFJ

Sagittarius

How to make ANY woman blush!

Earlier today I was asked by a fellow member how to properly compliment a woman on her beauty. So, I decided to sit down in the computer and write down ten compliments that most women would love to hear said to them: 1. “You are beautiful.” 2. “You have the kind of beauty that makes spring seem... (edited) read more

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Rita Monet

INFJ

Gemini

Don't force it. If you ain't vibin, then you gotta go, bruh!

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Dale Marcella

INFJ

Aquarius

Your presence is enough❤️

In my darkest moments, I don’t need solutions or advice. What I yearn for is simply human connection—a quiet presence, a gentle touch. These small gestures are the anchors that hold us steady when life feels like too much. Please don’t try to fix me. Don’t take on my pain or push away my shadows.... (edited) read more

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𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾

24d

INFJ

Libra

3 Awards

Boredom Tips 👍🏽

This is for the people who strike up online relationships with no intention of ever seeing the person. Talk to AI. I'm not even joking. AI will ask you how your day was, call you beautiful/handsome and can legit have live conversations with you. If you know you are not serious about having a real... read more

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Angel

28d

INTJ

Pisces

Progress

#relationshipadvice

Arj♠️🐺🧭

ENFJ

1 Award

You don't need to look for it everywhere, take a step back, consider the reality of the situation. Let yourself feel but don't forget to listen to your mind 🙏🏽 Things tend to find you when you don't look for them. Be well 🌻

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Arj♠️🐺🧭

27d

ENFJ

2 Awards

If you keep telling people you're not good enough, they might start repeating it to you. Don't put yourself down and definitely do NOT allow others to, either. Champion yourself and the right people will champion you. Be kind to the person in the mirror. 🙏🏽🌻

#thoughts #showerthoughts #advice #relationshipadvice

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10d

INTJ

Cancer

I think not only 7🤔

7 TYPES OF PEOPLE TO AVOID 1. Wheelbarrow People: These individuals drain your energy and waste your time. They expect you to do everything for them without considering your needs. They are consumers of your energy, time, and resources. 2. Mosquito People: These people only want to extract... read more

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Isla 🖤

24d

INFJ

Libra

💭

One day you will realize that the same person is not found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. Be careful who you hurt. In this fast-paced, ever-evolving world, we often take relationships for granted. We live in a culture that promotes moving on quickly, finding something or someone new... read more

#self

Dale Marcella

14d

INFJ

Aquarius

1 Award

7 TYPES OF PEOPLE TO AVOID

1. Wheelbarrow People: These individuals drain your energy and waste your time. They expect you to do everything for them without considering your needs. They are consumers of your energy, time, and resources. 2. Mosquito People: These people only want to extract benefits from you while injecting... read more

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Joshua

12d

ISFP

Virgo

Yes 1000% agree

#relationshipadvice

#lifeadvice

Christian

INFJ

Virgo

Important Life Lessons 📜👀

Before the New Year arrives, I decided to ask what are some important life lessons you should have learned as a kid before becoming an adult? Here's some of mine from experience: -Life will have unexpected and unfair moments. -Dwelling on your doubts does no good. Just do it, take your time, or... (edited) read more

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𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾

10d

INFJ

Libra

You'll Be Fine 🤗

Knowing that we are all stupid sometimes boosted my self-confidence. If we are all stupid sometimes: No need to feel imposter syndrome. Nobody knows what they are doing. Everyone is trying to figure it out. They are just good at pretending to know. Under the water, they are paddling like mad. Also,... read more

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Ash

29d

INFP

What am I to post? Boring to post everyday to level up.

Do you have any suggestion to level up quickly? How long does it take to reach diamond level? #boo #advice #lifeadvice

#advice

Bex

INTP

Leo

Pretty much 🤷

#nosy

S the Nosy Aunt 🦝✨️

22d

ISFP

I'm thinking to draft something about how to see less of thirst trap contents here.

But since this type of content is one of the "backbone" of this app, I want to see how many souls would want to read my suggestions?🤔 #boo #advice (edited)

Yes please post about it

No need

20 votes

I'm thinking to draft something about how to see less of thirst trap contents here.

#advice

Tony

ENFP

Aquarius

Hair advice.

Yo I always wear hats and beanies I really don't like to. But as you can see my hair always too wild. Any hair products anyone recommend? It always poofs back out and gets wild. 😩 Bonus question as well. Any tips on how I keep it out of my face while I sleep lmao? I've tried a few things but... (edited) read more

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Chozo

ESTP

Leo

I'm not too sure how to word this lol

Let's say you're an introvert, crazy I know lol, and you're interested in someone who's relatively outgoing. Wanting to spend time with them you start getting involved in some of their outdoor interests and you start to enjoy them and even do them when your person of interest isn't around. They... (edited) read more

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Into the stillness I quietly fade, Where secrets are safe and heartaches are made A silent retreat from the world's loud din Where peace and calm, softly step in

#advice

Aleksandra

20d

ENFP

Aries

Need advice or explanation

So I need someone to help explain something, i’m just so confused and heartbroken. I’ve been talking to this guy and it seemed amazing, we got along, our humour matched and turns out we used to go to the same sixth form and had similar acquaintances. We got along so well. Yesterday morning he... read more

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Jenny

ISFJ

Aquarius

Agree ☺️

#advice

Maybe Fae

28d

ENFP

Aquarius

I'm just saying. They would know best... 💅🏻

#writing

Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Some wounds defy the passage of time Refusing to heal, a perpetual rhyme Centuries may fade, but scars remain A testament to pain that refuses to wane

#writing

Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

They say "be strong", with a voice that's loud and clear But depression's whispers, can bring even the strongest to fear It creeps in with the shadows, and steals the light of day And the weight of its darkness, can be hard to find a way

#writing

Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

We search for solace, in another's gentle hand, For wounds that we cannot heal, on our own broken land We yearn for someone's love, to mend our shattered past, To heal the hurts that we cannot, and make our hearts whole at last

#writing

Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

A memory to bury, a heart to set free Why hold on to what's lost, a love that used to be Forever's just a dream, that's faded with the past Now I'm left to move on, and let love forever last

#psychology

Prof

29d

INFJ

Leo

Smarter than you ...✨

Just because I give you advice doesn't mean I'm smarter than you... It means I've done more stupid stuff than you...✨ #life #quote #advice #love #night

#advice

Janina

29d

ENFP

Taurus

For you

♡ Be kind

#advice

Maybe Fae

14d

ENFP

Aquarius

If someone could please tell me how to be normal... That'd be great. Thanks.... 😩💀

#writing

Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

In the past, thoughts of her brought joyful cheer A heart that was full, with love that was clear But now, memories of her bring only sorrow's sway A heart that once loved, now weeps every day

#advice

Maybe Fae

ENFP

Aquarius

Babe, don't give me space to miss you. Cuz I won't. I got that special brand of ADHD "outta sight outta mind", and you just actived invisibility mode. We are not the same. 💅🏻

Help with my profile

Advice Community

It looks good. You've got a few of your interests listed which is great for starting a conversation and a lot of pictures. Mine is a ginormous essay so don't look to me for examples...😁

well i cant really say much since I'm in the same spot 🤣 but That looks good(?

Your profile has my attention 🫠

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A heart that's numbing, a soul that's worn, I've buried the pain, and the tears that are born. I say nothing, I feel nothing, it's true, For in silence, I've found a way to see this through.

We try to hide in silence, to escape the heart's despair, But pain is a persistent guest, that's always lurking there. It seeps into our quiet nights, and whispers every day, A constant reminder of the hurt, that refuses to fade away.

Two faces of sorrow, a tale of pain, One hides behind a smile, a lips' disguise in vain. The other reveals the truth, in eyes that dimly shine, A window to the heart, where depression's darkness entwine.

GIVING YOURSELF CREDIT REDARDLESS OF ANYTHING... 😍🥰🫰🫶🌻🌈💖✨️

Initiate a conversation but never force it

HONORING YOUR WORTHINESS...🥰😉💖✨️🌻🌈🫶🫰

Personal opinion about Soul's posts

🎯💯🌟🤗🌻

I once wondered why hearts burn with fiery rage Why love can turn to anger, and a soul's dark cage But now I understand, for I've walked that same flame And felt the fury that fuels, the heart's deepest pain

How to make ANY woman blush!

Don't force it. If you ain't vibin, then you gotta go, bruh!

Your presence is enough❤️

Boredom Tips 👍🏽

Progress

You don't need to look for it everywhere, take a step back, consider the reality of the situation. Let yourself feel but don't forget to listen to your mind 🙏🏽 Things tend to find you when you don't look for them. Be well 🌻

If you keep telling people you're not good enough, they might start repeating it to you. Don't put yourself down and definitely do NOT allow others to, either. Champion yourself and the right people will champion you. Be kind to the person in the mirror. 🙏🏽🌻

I think not only 7🤔

💭

7 TYPES OF PEOPLE TO AVOID

Yes 1000% agree

Important Life Lessons 📜👀

You'll Be Fine 🤗

What am I to post? Boring to post everyday to level up.

Pretty much 🤷

I'm thinking to draft something about how to see less of thirst trap contents here.

Hair advice.

I'm not too sure how to word this lol

Into the stillness I quietly fade, Where secrets are safe and heartaches are made A silent retreat from the world's loud din Where peace and calm, softly step in

Need advice or explanation

Agree ☺️

I'm just saying. They would know best... 💅🏻

Some wounds defy the passage of time Refusing to heal, a perpetual rhyme Centuries may fade, but scars remain A testament to pain that refuses to wane

They say "be strong", with a voice that's loud and clear But depression's whispers, can bring even the strongest to fear It creeps in with the shadows, and steals the light of day And the weight of its darkness, can be hard to find a way

We search for solace, in another's gentle hand, For wounds that we cannot heal, on our own broken land We yearn for someone's love, to mend our shattered past, To heal the hurts that we cannot, and make our hearts whole at last

A memory to bury, a heart to set free Why hold on to what's lost, a love that used to be Forever's just a dream, that's faded with the past Now I'm left to move on, and let love forever last

Smarter than you ...✨

For you

If someone could please tell me how to be normal... That'd be great. Thanks.... 😩💀

In the past, thoughts of her brought joyful cheer A heart that was full, with love that was clear But now, memories of her bring only sorrow's sway A heart that once loved, now weeps every day

Babe, don't give me space to miss you. Cuz I won't. I got that special brand of ADHD "outta sight outta mind", and you just actived invisibility mode. We are not the same. 💅🏻