So over the years I've spent nearly everyday and month with the same person we had been on and off from the start and had been breaking up in between. No matter what I did or could do, they kept ever really being there for me in general whether I needed them or whether they came back of their own choice, I got fed up of everything they was doing, the ovwrtime, the family and barely having enough time for a girfriend, I get people struggle but why did this keep happening, it's a question that can't be solved Everytime I would find a new partner they would come back and would have to do everything with me and never respected my space nor my boundaries when I needed to be alone in public. Almost scared that something would happen to me. I wasn't even allowed to make friends or too scared to even try. I shy away from affection and opening up it's scary that something like this can have such an affect on one person. I struggle without someone by my side and I shouldn't I'm also here to make friends and possibly find a potential partner but first I need to ask why this happened. (edited)

Breakup Community

The breakup community, chat, and discussion.

417 SOULS

best

new

5mo

INFJ

Taurus

Get a shovel.

Meet New People

50,000,000+

DOWNLOADS

INFP

Libra

Trying to find friends or ways to cope with my recent breakup

Hey there. It would be nice to chat with somebody about your and my interests, to get to know somebody and be friends to distract me from the pain from the breakup I recently had. If you have any advice or consolation for the post breakup stage, please feel free to share.

INFJ

Gemini

We all been there..

I still love you, but I want the best for you... Even if it without me... (edited)

1mo

ESFP

Aries

Sad

I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago. Why does it hurt so bad? I divorced my ex of 18 years and not even that hurt this much. Probably cause he cheated and did drugs and I dealt with his bs for 8 years. But this was only 7 months. Does it ever get better? How do I stop myself from reaching out?

ESTP

Aries

Goodbye

1mo

INFP

Taurus

How long does this last

How long does this feeling last… that hopelessness that anguish the pain of knowing you cared more…

29d

INTJ

Capricorn

Do you think people actually change after a breakup?

7mo

INFJ

Gemini

I got dumped today

I just don't know what to do.

2mo

ISFP

Virgo

好想分手。想放手卻又愛。

4mo

INFP

Virgo

😞

9mo

INFP

Pisces

Tired

The only reason to stay alive is my children’s life and future.

7mo

INFP

Sagittarius

Day 2 of Broken Diary

6mo

INFJ

Scorpio

Toxic love

How do u get over a breakup when they try destroying ur hole family too isolate u

3mo

INFJ

Gemini

How can he swear love one day, make plans, and the next day he simply leaves?

I need to write because I feel like if I don't I'll explode. I love this man with all my heart, and I believed in every word, every plan, every dream we had. We are from different cultures, we have different experiences, but at the same time it seemed like we were made for each other. The... (edited) read more

2mo

INFP

Taurus

survival

how do you survive a breakup? especially if it was a long term relationship and a very strong deep intense connection...

12mo

INFJ

Scorpio

This last one crippled me, i fear

It's always been hard to get back on the horse after a breakup.. this last one really hit me hard though. We were engaged, happily. She was excitedly planning and eager to watch our garden grow. Every day was paradise, we laughed so much and was looking forward to so many new and amazing... (edited) read more

1mo

ISFJ

Leo

I’m lost

I gave you my everything. My love, my time, my trust… and still, it wasn’t enough. I thought we were forever, but forever was just a lie I told myself. I’m shattered, hollow, and exhausted from loving someone who didn’t fight for me the way I fought for us. I don’t even recognise the person I’ve... read more

11mo

ISTJ

Capricorn

Chhoo Lo by The band "Local Train"🌹

#guitar #love #romance #breakup

2mo

ENTP

Cancer

Here's something I know she won't see but I'm glad she's happier

Thirteen years. It’s a lifetime — or at least, it was ours. We built something real. Something we both believed in. And for a long time, it felt strong… unshakeable. But the cracks came. Not all at once — just little things, small shifts. A conversation we didn’t finish. A look we didn’t... read more

2mo

ENTP

Cancer

Burying the 13 years with this

I don’t know if there’s ever a right way to say goodbye to thirteen years. There’s no script for this — just a heart full of memories and a quiet ache where something once lived. We were so much more than the ending. We were late-night talks and early-morning hellos. We were birthdays and bad days... read more

10mo

INFJ

Pisces

No title

Having broken heart, opend boo account

6mo

ESFJ

Gemini

What would you do to keep you’re ex away and what’s the best way to move on from you’re ex

1. What’s the best way to keep ex 2. How to work on you’re self when you thought she was the one 3. I have been single a since trying to move need some advic 4. Do you believe in soulmates ? 5 . Does the 90s is still alive ?

10mo

ESTP

Lost in silence, haunted by unanswered questions.

I’ve been trying to make the relationship work, even though she didn’t seem to want to. Is it just me, or do these thoughts keep popping up? I keep thinking things couldn’t have gotten this bad. It feels like one of those once-in-a-lifetime regrets, and it’s been 5 years now, but I still don’t... (edited) read more

7mo

ISTP

Scorpio

Finding yourself

After a very long term relationship, what steps do you guys take to find who you are again? How long did it take yall?

7mo

ENFP

Healing

I am allowed to heal without shame ❤️

8mo

ENFJ

Virgo

It's been 9 years we got separated still I see her in my dreams

5mo

INFP

Aquarius

Got a haircut, the final post-breakup ritual lol

1mo

ISTJ

Virgo

Today's the day

Well, today's the day I break up with my girlfriend. It's been a 3 year relationship that im throwing away but in all honesty.... I just can't do it with her anymore. There's alot of things wrongs with in the relationship most of which just can't be fixed. Yay..... back to the single life. (If you... read more

4mo

INTP

Virgo

Cant tell when it ended.

Officially, I cannot remember the last time I broke up with my ex. Like the actual day we broke up as a couple, as opposed to the on and off side b.s. we were doing after the fact. But my official end with the person, I consider to be completely NO CONTACT. I can't believe its only been two years... read more

1mo

INFJ

Capricorn

Getting through break up advice

Hi all, I'm new here but I'd like to get some advice and maybe some similar stories. I'm currently going through a break up and it's been very difficult. I was broken up with feeling neglected and my trust betrayed constantly. I recognize that it wasn't working, but I still feel hurt and sadness... read more

7mo

ESTJ

Aries

I tried but ...

11mo

INFJ

Pisces

💔

#💔

6mo

INFJ

Pisces

Today I broke up and don’t know what to do By😕

10mo

ENFJ

Hurt

Everything i choose, but end last hurts all time

10mo

ENTJ

Gemini

Wayto go after breakup

9mo

INTJ

🖤

7mo

ISFJ

Pisces

🫤

How to handle a break up

Breakup Community

Get a shovel.

Related Posts

Trying to find friends or ways to cope with my recent breakup

We all been there..

Sad

Goodbye

How long does this last

Do you think people actually change after a breakup?

I got dumped today

好想分手。想放手卻又愛。

😞

Tired

Day 2 of Broken Diary

Toxic love

How can he swear love one day, make plans, and the next day he simply leaves?

survival

This last one crippled me, i fear

I’m lost

Chhoo Lo by The band "Local Train"🌹

Here's something I know she won't see but I'm glad she's happier

Burying the 13 years with this

No title

What would you do to keep you’re ex away and what’s the best way to move on from you’re ex

Lost in silence, haunted by unanswered questions.

Finding yourself

Healing

It's been 9 years we got separated still I see her in my dreams

Got a haircut, the final post-breakup ritual lol

Today's the day

Cant tell when it ended.

Getting through break up advice

I tried but ...

💔

Today I broke up and don’t know what to do By😕

Hurt

Wayto go after breakup

🖤

🫤