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Universes
Posted Friday, October 28, 2022
2y
INTP
"Have and don't want more"
Now think about this: You have kids. You want someone without kids who doesn't want kids, UNLESS they're someone else's. I'm not saying anyone's wrong for wanting this, but just think about: how?
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Drake
2y
INFJ
Libra
For me, If I had kids, I'd say the more the merrier. Whether they come with them or want have them with me. But that's my opinion. I don't mind the mine, hers, and ours. Because I'd treat them all like they were mine. I grew up in sorta kind of family. It was more his, hers, ours, and adopted. Me being the sorta adopted. But I love kids. Wish I had some.
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4qu4r1u5
2y
INTP
Bring the age in the equation. The age of both potential partners and also the age of the kids. Some people would not mind having 10+ kids (at wich point it becomes self managing entity IMHO) other struggle to have one and manage work-life balance. I agree that your chances of finding someone may drop with "have and don't want any more" they also drop when you simply get older or are in a wheelchair or have a nasty character. I actually know two men that have wives with kids from previous marriage and have no problems with not having their own. Actually they both treat them as if they were their own. IMHO if a person truly love kids it does not really matter who is the biological parent.
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Catherine
1y
INFJ
Scorpio
I read this and use it as "I have and love my children, I don't at all mind if you have children as well, however I do not want to use my body, seed/egg, womb to create another human with my DNA." Unfortunately I don't think they will ever give us the write in options... which honestly... most of the options should have a write in option. I've never met two humans exactly alike in my life and I ave known several sets of twins to boot. 😅 Trying to please the masses and filter their responses at the same time, we all just exist here; most of us just trying to do our best with what's given.
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Molly
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2y
INTP
I guess when people put such expectations on others, they already thought about it and decided it was their hill to die on 🤷
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