Since I'm back in the dating scene and searching for a serious long-term relationship, it would serve me to know what kind of shenanigans are still prevalent. For example, are women still out here on that 6 feet, 6 figures, 6 inches or more shallow bs? Are materials still a high ranking aspect in what is demanded? Is it still a "him 100% effort, her 0% effort" psychology? Is it still a "be glad I am giving you the chance to talk to me" level of energy? What's going on out there? This is a serious question with only the intent of understanding what I'm up against. Thanks.

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