Christy
Christy

1y

ISFJ

Leo

Struggling with values

I am a lost Christian person. I didn't want to lose all my faith but I also don't want to be stuck in a rigid religion trying mold my personality into something I'm not. I really struggle with dating because I have these Christian values but I'm not this perfect Christian woman. I don't know how to navigate this rode, I'm stuck between the guilt of religion and the ticking time clock. Soon I'll be too old for love and I'll die alone.

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Luna Rose

Luna Rose

1y

ENTP

Cancer

4
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That's not what God intended. People's interpretation of the Bible made you ashamed, not God himself.

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Darius

Darius

1y

INFP

Virgo

6
7

Firstly breathe. We try too hard to fit a mold or a standard when we’re not designed to be ‘Perfect’ Building your relationship with god is ENOUGH. He meets you where you’re at and only requires that you seek him out wholeheartedly. He won’t ask the impossible if you, that’s nothing but the enemy talking. Know that you’re enough. Won’t be long until you see the blessings so chin up

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Luna Rose

Luna Rose

1y

ENTP

Cancer

4
5

First of all, the notion of a "Christian Woman" was invented by men to keep the opposite sex suppressed. So, do what you want and enjoy yourself!

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John

John

1y

INTJ

Aquarius

Try a different denomination. United Methodist Christians are really chill, even ordain gay pastors in the US. You're not a bad Christian if your church isn't good for you. There are plenty of different flavors to choose from under the same umbrella.

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