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Jessie
Jessie

1y

INTJ

Capricorn

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3

Friendzoned…

Ever liked and flirted someone. It was nice at first, flirty. But began to be hot and cold. Turns out we were just having mixed signals… After it was getting more serious, sorta dating and me telling I was liking her for a while. She eventually told me the truth, she just liked the attention. She already had a boyfriend; She liked me as well but didn’t want me to leave so she didn’t want to say anything. It stings… I don’t know what to do and how to feel after that as I did geniuinely like her. It would of been easier, if she said she had bf first, before anything progressed further. (Seriously, why would you show you want to date, but was already taken?) Sometimes I wish I wasn’t as blind and people were straight up honest. Edit: TLDR - Friendzoned in the most brutal way. Flirted with girl for a long time, even to the point of me telling I loved her. Turns out she had a boyfriend. But she wanted to remain friends still as she likes the attention I give (edited)

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Hannah
Hannah

1y

INFJ

Aquarius

5
6

I’m sorry Sam ☹️☹️☹️ you didn’t deserve this. Hopefully she learns from this situation and doesn’t do it again.

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Dexter
Dexter

1y

INTJ

Virgo

Yeah, that's not the friend zone. She manipulated your emotions and strung you along like a toy. In your shoes I'd leave her behind and find a better person more worthy of your attention who will be honest and forthcoming with you.

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Imran Shah
Imran Shah

1y

INFJ

Virgo

9
1

Nah you're not blind but you were a bit naive. It happens to everyone. Dust yourself off, every piece of silverware needs polishing now and again

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Thainá
Thainá

1y

INFP

Libra

9
1

I know exactly how it feels like and I'm sorry to know you need to face the consequences alone due to others egoism. For sure you were not blind, you were being real and she played with you. As someone who also needed to face a situation similar before, I would recommend you to follow your path and never look behind. I know you really like her but someone selfish like that isn't able to consider others feelings before than hers and will hurt you again and again till you can't take it anymore. Take it as a lesson, it hurts but the earlier you face this, the earlier you will overcome this situation.

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Alex
Alex

1y

INTP

Taurus

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Ruthless

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