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Posted Wednesday, May 22, 2024
2mo
INFP
Aquarius
Question for the ladies
How would you prefer a guy to DM you, and why: •Only after matching? •Dm with no match but maybe they saw something on your profile they liked? •Dm after a lil back and forth on a post in universes? •No DMs at all? This is assuming they like you and wanna start to get to know you, and you aren't just here for friends. I see allot of guys on here struggling to talk to girls or getting no matches, I've been recommending to do a lil back and forth then DMng if you hit it off Feel like allot of guys would find your answers helpful.
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DM after or before matching it doesn't matter to me, as long as they actually help to start or keep a conversation going, I've noticed it seems like they jump from a topic real quick to another thing instead of actually having a conversation, it feels like as if they're running from something, some send you a DM & like yet they don't even try to get to know you or actually talk about themselves and it's like they depend on you to keep* the conversation moving the whole time.. which is boring and exhausting, others don't even read a profile.. So probably that's why a lot of people especially men get ghosted & struggle here, just chill and make some effort! (edited)
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