Irene

Posted Sunday, March 17, 2024

1mo

INFP

Taurus

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Emotional intelligence very important

If you marry someone who lacks emotional intelligence, you'll pay for it for a long time. They won't understand how their behaviour affects others. They will personalise everything, and you'll never feel understood. You will be apologising for everything just to restore peace, and you will be suffering inside. These people are impulsive, and they live day to day like children. Their outward charms will draw you in, and you will overlook their underlying lack of emotional connectedness with themselves. One simple sign is when someone has invested too much in looking physically attractive. It's usually compensation for a severe lack of feeling internally beautiful and awakened. Also, beware lest you get into relationships with people who can't regulate their feelings. You will be at the mercy of their rage and their bad moods. You will have to soothe their erratic tempers and take on the responsibility for managing their feelings. Once more, when the awakened pairs up with the unawakened, they will pay the price because they have a standard to maintain while the unawakened has none. Do yourself a favour and always take time to investigate and analyse people's character before allowing emotional indulgence. If your whole life savings were at stake, you would never make a drunken purchase. You'd never get drunk when negotiating a purchase that will cost you all the money you have. Similarly, when you're negotiating a relationship that will change your whole life, why do you get emotionally drunk? It's not easy to control your urges, especially when you think you're in love. But when you remember that your whole life is hanging on the balance, you will do it.