Just sharing some self insight, not sure there is meaning behind it or if I am the only one here like this. I see people on here and out of interest I check Thier ages. Some times I am pretty close but more regularly I am not. Someone will state they are 28 but they look 38 to me or they state 34 but they look 28 tops. Is this something I am broken with or is it something else? Does it just come down to , "don't trust a book by its cover" or maybe they have had a hard or easy life? Loom I just got questions here and wanted to share so I could read your personal thoughts too, if you would be kind enough to share them?

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Sometimes it's clothes, make-up and hair. I can certainly make myself look younger or older

Dita

ISFJ

Sagittarius

I choose to think that age and looks don't always align with one another 💁🏻‍♀️ if people wanna lie about their age, it's their choice. We can always check with them when we're talking, and if they're not what they say their age is on their profile, we can make always make a decision based on that.

Kristen

INFJ

Pisces

It has to do also with the life they live. Pretty sure I'm holding up well for my age, I've had things pretty easy and I moisturize like crazy. Some people have just been harsher to themselves.

Koi

INFJ

I am bad at guessing ages. I base it off how I look, so it results in me misjudging people as being sometimes 20 years older than me when we're the same age really or worse, I am older than them by 20 years lol. (Edit bc I'm medicated and repeated words lol) (edited)

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I thought this was lovely 🫶🏻

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Relationships for trauma survivors

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release the control you give others over you.

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Break away from the loop 🙏

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This. 🖤

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Aquarius

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Pisces

Shave 🪒

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